Instead of answering a question, he used "humiliation and reverse bullying"
It goes like this, and example, similar but not verbatim:
"Sir, did you ever sexually aggressive to a women, when intoxicated as a 16 year old boy?"
Answer:
The Gaslighter:
a, turns the tables: what was said, or what you said, is thrown back on you
b. certain prodding humiliating bully attacks are mounted:
you are
didn't you
Note, that the humiliation bully is
a. long skilled at these terms and methods.
They don't just appear out of nowhere. The humiliation bully knows these from childhood and teen years, though as an attorney, he learned to socially temper or hide these methods and phrases from others.
b. are very often brilliant, and catch MOST others off guard.
Do these men, as attorneys direct these into their court room tactics? Do these attorneys also use these humiliation attacks on spouses, children, and unwitting victims? Yes. The quantity of attorneys that have dangerous narcissistic personality disorder and are socially brilliant social psychopaths would shock you......much is written about this in several books in this link, and also discussed in a sample attorney attack in this blog: attorney blows up defending son in gym....danger Will Robinson.
13 books and booklets, as well as free tests, resources, PBS video clips and more:
https://narcissistdonaldtrump.blogspot.com/
Kavanaugh hid these in his law practice methods. Then, they show up: a leopard will not change it's spots. A cobra is always true to it's nature. (See true to nature articles and books at the link above).
Then:
c. the bully is supported by the bully club, the good old boys club, the frat boys club:
They are validated and supported for their Gaslighting. It's surprising that the Kavanaugh parties weren't just keggers! They were though, frat boys patting frat other frat boys on the back.
This suppression of women, minorities, and gays is not just in the US: it is part of the human nature worldwide to support dominant male culture and entitlement, and the oppression of the rest of the population. In some places, it's slavery, in India, it's women as objects, in daily horrific reports of abuse and mass rapes that fail to end EVEN with legislation and police intervention. Why I ask, is India so blatant in this? The answer is because the legislators and the police are part of that good old boy, frat boy's club: I'll slap your hands, but its good your a man and not a pussy.
Are there any stars in the sky anymore?
It seems they are distant, and you have to look hard. But, we must look hard. We must bring out our Social Responsibility Telescope, and with our voices, know and say: I'm without shame and will full knowledge, a feminist. And, that is the start, because as we support women, we support those marginalized and disenfranchises of all types. This resources lost from women is also the lost human concern for all, and the planet! "Carl Jung: women are the key to balance and save the human race". (adapted).
Here are two very tiny points of light in today's news. Now, just one or two points alone don't light up the sky.....we need more!
One teacher has a chart on consent, and teaches her youth what "consent" is. CNN
https://www.cnn.com/2018/10/08/health/california-teacher-explains-consent-trnd/index.html
And, Instagram starts, at least attempts, to filter bullying photos |
And, Instagram starts, at least attempts, to filter bullying photos.
https://www.cnn.com/2018/10/09/tech/instagram-anti-bullying-tools/index.html
What are you doing today to affirm women???
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