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Tuesday, April 16, 2019

Notre Dame: When Buildings are Symbols, Burned, or Attacked

Buildings are symbols and metaphors for humans. The concepts are deeply ingrained in all human brains beyond even our awareness and even ability to describe. This inner recognition is called a symbol or metaphor that is a brain archetype: some symbolic idea or even a story line that we recognize, understand, but may not be able to describe. We go "ah hah", so that there is a story of:
a politician who is a vampire
the boyfriend that is like a werewolf
the difficult journey in life that feels like a big fat quest
the story that is working itself out, but will end in tragedy
the bumble bee, a symbol of nature, naive, caring, bumbling....vulnerable, like how we feel sometimes


Buildings represent:
imagination
building a form
following some rules to build that are gained in time: architecture
space with purposes
height and width: presence
decoration, like the gargoyles of Notre Dame
history: enduring, collapsing, being destroyed in Wars,
use, utility



What is grief for a lost building? BBC article today.




Some buildings in the world gained much more symbolism, metaphor, and archetype through:

history
building methods
treasures within
use and purpose
world recognition

Notre Dame Cathedral, the most visited building in the world, becomes a Super Symbolic Building. First, there is the name, Our Lady
Second, there are treasures inside of Catholic history, world history, and general art treasures
Third, the building was a symbol of enduring for the French, and others, as they endured and surpassed 800 years of war, struggle, disease, and famine: "She" was still there.
Fourth: buildings are not invasive or aggressive symbols: even if they are hosting Hitler or the Jews of the Genocide, they retain their nature of
protection
shielding
place
presence
warmth in cold and cooling in searing dessert heats

Indeed, the Building is a Feminine Symbol: one of not just Notre Dame, but of Caring Mother, Gaia, Cultural Goddess Within, the Maternal care of humanity.

When there is destruction from a war, we cry. But when a building is destroyed of note, we sob: a deep weeping of our soul inside for that lost Divine Mother image.


When the Gaslighter Attacks, the theme of this blog, these elements are threatened and then lost:
place
shelter
structures (we all need structures in life, buildings being just one example). The Gaslighter removes our structures of life, and one feels truly truly.....lost.   "I miss the structures, I miss my Mother".

Some buildings and structures become this and could be diverse:
Notre Dame or World Trade Centers (and these world trade centers exist in many countries).
Statues such as Christ the Redeemer of Rio, or the great wall.




Jenga: when your building and life structures are toyed with, a game, destroyed. Click here




We see in Paris, the Forces of the Divine Feminine/Goddess/  special forces within even men, that Yin and Yang where men have owned their other half:
Macron speaks to the people
In a day, 1 $billion is raised to rebuild Notre Dame
But, importantly, the fire fighters and that whole concept is a Divine Feminine Force in Paris: the divine feminine doesn't mean they are acting feminine, but they are acting as a mother would in care, intervention, relief.

What if these firemen acted with force or used force? The buildings would collapse.
There,
A. the male energy of rampant force without regard to the meaning of the building or the humanity of the people would be run over, thrown under the bus, disregarded, and also lost
B. or, women who follow this model would act with that force, use aggressive energy not their own, and "show they have big balls", overly bravado, or rampant natures........

see the article before on:

When Women Grow Big Balls:

The force of a woman is much greater than a woman assume male forces: growing balls




What if these firemen acted with force or used force? The buildings would collapse.   There,   A. the male energy of rampant force without regard to the meaning of the building or the humanity of the people would be run over, thrown under the bus, disregarded, and also lost  B. or, women who follow this model would act with that force, use aggressive energy not their own, and "show they have big balls", overly bravado, or rampant natures........

2 What if these firemen acted with force or used force? The buildings would collapse.   There,   A. the male energy of rampant force without regard to the meaning of the building or the humanity of the people would be run over, thrown under the bus, disregarded, and also lost  B. or, women who follow this model would act with that force, use aggressive energy not their own, and "show they have big balls", overly bravado, or rampant natures........







Notre Dame:  When Buildings are Symbols, Burned, or Attacked



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Sunday, April 14, 2019

Jenga: Your Narrative Just Got Knocked out from Under You....

What happens to a person Gaslighted, attacked by a political psychopath, bully parent, or abusive narcissistic boss?


"Psychopathic brilliance meets your vulnerabilities, known or unknown"

b. a brain then becomes dedicated to this:   narcissistic and taking methods of  attacker are combined with a brain without compassion, depth of feelings, remorse: the brain becomes one overtaken, dedicated to, and supercharged to function as that 17 year old regressed mind out to "get for me", greed, self serving, ego stroking,,,,,etc.

2 b. a brain then becomes dedicated to this:   narcissistic and taking methods of  attacker are combined with a brain without compassion, depth of feelings, remorse: the brain becomes one overtaken, dedicated to, and supercharged to function as that 17 year old regressed mind out to "get for me", greed, self serving, ego stroking,,,,,etc.

3 b. a brain then becomes dedicated to this:   narcissistic and taking methods of  attacker are combined with a brain without compassion, depth of feelings, remorse: the brain becomes one overtaken, dedicated to, and supercharged to function as that 17 year old regressed mind out to "get for me", greed, self serving, ego stroking,,,,,etc.





A week link or vulnerability is used by "psychopathic brilliance"

a. a lifetime of skill and knowledge is dedicated to the "taking" via the attacks and methods
(see links to the book resources above on the 100 methods).
b. a brain then becomes dedicated to this:
narcissistic and taking methods of  attacker are combined with a brain without compassion, depth of feelings, remorse: the brain becomes one overtaken, dedicated to, and supercharged to function as that 17 year old regressed mind out to "get for me", greed, self serving, ego stroking,,,,,etc.

The result:

Your story of your life is gone....and their narrative or story is nourished, fed, grown...

Attacks range from sneaky vulnerability attacks, development of weaponry (the potato rubber band shooter....it's oddity confounds us), or just outright fist smashing.....


The result:     Your story of your life is gone....and their narrative or story is nourished, fed, grown...    Attacks range from sneaky vulnerability attacks, development of weaponry (the potato rubber band shooter....it's oddity confounds us), or just outright fist smashing.....

mental jenga of the abuser psychopath and narcissist: smash your life

3 mental jenga of the abuser psychopath and narcissist: smash your life

4 mental jenga of the abuser psychopath and narcissist: smash your life




For them, it's the game of life, fun, but for you, it's the dissolution of life as you see it.

Jenga

7 mental jenga of the abuser psychopath and narcissist: smash your life

8 mental jenga of the abuser psychopath and narcissist: smash your life




How, then, does one rebuild?


Here are a few ideas, metaphors from pictures and some videos on Africa from the BBC:


What healing metaphor are you using?


1. we must become the inner child again: be willing to play again, start, trust

be the child willing to restart: mental jenga of the abuser psychopath and narcissist: smash your life


2. We get back to our story narrative, like these videos symbolically explain:


https://www.bbc.com/reel/playlist/captains-of-africa?vpid=p072cxy7

bbc reel dreams Africa: 2. We get back to our story narrative, like these videos symbolically explain:





https://www.bbc.com/reel/playlist/captains-of-africa?vpid=p072chdl  



2 bbc reel dreams Africa: 2. We get back to our story narrative, like these videos symbolically explain:

3 .   bbc reel dreams Africa: 2. We get back to our story narrative, like these videos symbolically explain:

4. bbc reel dreams Africa: 2. We get back to our story narrative, like these videos symbolically explain:






Your Narrative Just Got Knocked out from Under You....

Are you moving on? Leaving something, heading to something?

Are you moving on? Leaving something, heading to something?


new book on men with narcissistic personalitty disorder

https://www.amazon.com/When-Regressed-Stuck-Malignant-Narcissism/dp/B09R3LX7S6

 

 Book 2: extra information for the Shadow Workbook:take back your life, book, shadow work 2

 https://www.amazon.com/Take-Back-Your-Life-narcissists-ebook/dp/B09SKPSLGC

 

Here is Book One on Shadow Work:

Click here for book one at Amazon.com 

 shadow work workbook 1 at Amazon.com

 

All books, softcover and ebook at Amazon.com:

 

80 Books at Amazon.com Charles Bunch Phd 

80 books on bullies, narcissism, psychopaths


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