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Showing posts with label brain and mind conned. Show all posts
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Tuesday, July 24, 2018

When Gaslighting becomes a mob, lynchings, Whatsapp, and Alligators!

I'm very interested in how society can and always asks like a "symbolic person".  The people of Barcelona, El Paso, or Portland, Oregon, have group characteristics, just like people or even pets you know.

Society is said to act like a person. We all know about negative or positive group think, the culture of conservative or IT companies, and the culture and values of some cities. One study looked at these values as restaurant types.

You find Texas BBQ in many cities, but of course dominant in Texas. But, this study looked at a few restaurant types:


Where would you find Cracker Barrel Restaurants? In the conservative southern states, and a few other pockets. In Western Idaho, I'm in one of those pockets of Cracker Barrel's. You'd find on any day there:
travelers from the East who have a map of Cracker Barrel's outside their state
conservative farmers, mostly wealthy rancher types
whites, a few blacks, but seldom Hispanics, and no others of different world religions
people that have a Trump, US Flag, or Lock Her Up bumper sticker on their car, many have NRA bumper stickers
people in Cracker Barrel are not too diverse: Saturdays you'll find some small LDS Mormon families eating in a group, celebrating some Temple Ritual completed by a family member at the new Meridian LDS Temple or the Boise LDS Temple.  Lunch times, you'll find hunters, construction workers, and small business groups of men eating (no women), and saying their Evangelical grace before eating. The women seem to show up in pairs afternoons, and grace is followed sometimes with a little open Bible two or three person study.  The goods sold in Cracker Barrel: nostalgia, candles, and American sell well here in the state of Idaho, sometimes called Idabama.

This area is also home to conservative Christian other companies such as Hobby Lobby. It seems to be the duty of local Evangelicals to patronize there (though LDS Mormons are not encouraged to be so "crafty").  Chik-fil-a is also obliged to Evangelicals, but not Mormons.

The other restaurants that dominated other areas included primarily the rest of the country, represented by Applebees. This is also a family restaurant though there is a bar in the middle of each. But, it draws a different crowd than Cracker Barrel. And, there is no alignment of persons there, necessarily, to American, Gifts, or a conservative or political view.

So, groups, crowds, businesses, and even our restaurants can take on a "human culture".

In the book, UP FROM SCAPEGOATING, the author points out that groups, clubs, towns, states, and countries can take on the worst human characteristics of;
mob think
the dominant group dominates and vilifies the smaller cultural or citizen groups (in the West, this is mostly White Race, though there is now Evangelicalism, a dominance and repression of others not Evangelicals. Historically, in the Western Hemisphere, there was the oppression and murder of millions in many countries by Catholic Explorers of Spain and Portugal. Cultures were destroyed. The British Empire once included the Colonies which became the USA. Economic oppression of taxing and military control ranged from Boston to Delhi, India.

In the occidental hemisphere, Eastern, dominance is associated with the dominant race, but more so by political or religious groups. Massive Genocides occur annually in Africa, the Middle East, and Asia, where the dominant culture vilifies the smaller group.

The author of UP From Scapegoating says this process is common everywhere: bias is a human nature and is accomplished by
1. developing group think
2. developing an attitude of Cultural Narcissistic Disorder and Political Psychopathy
3. finding a lesser group to blame social problems, economic problems or tensions onto. It could be anything, because groups, states, and countries always have tension of some sort. The trigger is always there, and a lesser group is always there.
(Where India borders Pakistan, there are always killings or mass murders of the Other group. The determinant is just this: in a town where the Hindu or the Muslim Population is larger, determines who will attack the lesser and smaller group. If there is a rape or some tragedy, the dominant group vilifies and attacks the smaller group). Violence against women and LGTBQ's is up and double last year: you or someone you know will be a victim of a person who feels superior, greedy, and justified in robbing innocence or homes.
4. the narcissism grows: we're better because, you're lesser because
5. and ANGER comes to play.
6. The Brain Allows the Biased group think:

we all can become little psychopaths where we no longer see the value of a person or group of persons, just like Hannibal Lecters's "they" are just food, sex objects, cattle, or. This is the thought of any school shooter, serial killer, or sociopath/psychopaths: I will need to kill you, you're lesser than me or my race, you're a threat, you're like a dirty tissue or a chicken to be slaughtered and eaten. This loss of compassion and worth of others occurs in the mind and the brain: Vampire movies, the Purge, Dexter, Serial Killer Movies, the Las Vegas Shooting, Dillon Kliebold and thousands of movies and documentaries demonstrate this loss of compassion and humanity of the other. Scapegoating, finding fault, and killing follows.

When the book UP FROM SCAPEGOATING WAS written, we did not know:

1. how day to day Scapegoating is, and can be seen by all of us
2. how the brain participates in Bias and killings by innocent people, those drawn into genocides to "protect" their families or country.
3. how much ANGER is a part of the drive behind the scapegoating, vilification, and attacks/murders........

SEE THE LINK LOWER LEFT ON SHORT VIDEOS ON HOW THE BRAIN ALLOWS US TO PARTICIPATE IN THE BIAS AND EVEN MURDERS OF OUR OWN NEIGHBORS

4. and that YOU AND I are very vulnerable to this

5. and that CRITICAL INFORMATION CAN STOP THIS Process.


6. and that we are currently in a world of the
Culture of Anger: Anger and taking it out on the lessers is now seen as Good. Donald Trump has been the number one PR guy for anger and raging on others, though it's always there. He's helped develop a
a. Culture of Anger that reaches up to a Culture in the US of Raging
b. culture of Narcissism
c. culture of look out for number 1 and take care of number 1
d. keep other's off guard: play a destabilizing chess game of attacks and counter moves: this develops frustration and more anger in all
e. vilify often, but also take your buddies and throw an innocent one under the bus to promote the culture of your Napoleanship.
f. don't tell anyone: the only reason you do all of this is for your private greed goals: you're seeking to rob someone of their riches, rights, land, spare change, gold, luxuries. You're trying to make and prove your point of a superior view and superior self. You counter each confrontation with a counter attack or disinformation, done with great skill of a lifetime of practice.


 And, just how then does this all related to the movie Gaslighting?

  • Gaslighting is a mini-demo of all of this, and for a movie from 1940's does a pretty good job
  • The anger and rage cycles are there: you don't want to really mess with this guy
  • the Narcissism and psychopathy is there: his mind and brain both see no humanity or value in the woman being attacked: she's just an avenue to get the Jewels
  • there is a game being played, a chess match to win


Now, here are other examples of when Groups become like greedy narcissistic psychopathic persons, all in the news of this last week:




the purge.


the purge






When Gaslighting becomes a mob, lynchings, Whatsapp, and Alligators!








crocodile revenge killing india


whatsapp india mob






male rape of gay or straight man, mob in USA


When Gaslighting becomes a mob, lynchings, Whatsapp, and Alligators!

Sunday, July 8, 2018

Where is our Rescue When Our Own Mind Tricks US?

This is an important topic in the movie Gaslight. But, the rescue portion of this movie is not drawn out like so many stories or videos. In many epic monster movies, like Pacific Rim, most of the story is about "rescue".  Perhaps the rescue or resolution phase of this story is extended because of several factors:

When will rescue come? When well we throw our inner self a lifeline?
When will rescue come? When well we throw our inner self a lifeline? 



1. we may not believe "it" is happening to us
2. there is conning involved, and our mind, and our brain are tricking us with the information also.
3. the Gaslighter continues, before resolution, and even after: they never give up on the con, nor do they admit to the vile process or crimes unless they're the type seeking attention for crimes, like many of the Serial Killer Psychopaths.

This creates the complex of confusion, status, or most times: decline, loss of headway or progress, move into Post Trauma Stress Disorder and it's complex of brain and body decline cascades.

It's summer 2018 in writing this, and the spring of this year saw an abundance of new information on the brain's propensity to be fooled. There had been a smattering of good books describing this problem 10 years ago, and 20 years ago. But, this year saw new bits and pieces of real research, most from Europe, providing support for a whole field and understanding of the problem:
Our Mind is made to trick us.

Really, this mental foolery is part of many protective and intelligence operations our mind and that of animals does:
A. I have a routine of play with my cat where I start at point A with a mouse, and end up at B. My are amazing predictors of the outcome of some action. Soon, a paw is outstretched, and a faux bird or mouse is ensnared without a blink of an eye.
B. Cats were found in 2018 to have a portion of their brain dedicated to the prediction of the size of small prey or large foe by the sound and vibration emanating from that animal. A small mouse might rattle some grass, but have a tiny noise footprint. The cat brain sees this as a mouse based on their specialized brain.

But, what if in A, the mouse is actually an origami type piece that somehow I can make disappear?  The cat will still, until frustrated many times, go to point P, claws opened and ready to catch the toy.

And, in B: what if the sound was not in nature, and in the human world, where sounds are distorted or amplified? When the UPS man arrives, the cats have hidden. This is different than other persons arriving at my apartment door, but cause the UPS man has to chug up wood stairs with weighted packages, and that sound is amplified. The cats "here and interpret" that this is an elephant coming, when it's really not.

I have a cat, Sis, who's great at collecting insects that invade our home. But, when a moth flutters in that slow and noisy flitting large moths do, she gets pulled in. The noise is greater than the size of the actual moth. But, moth's too look bigger than their actual bodies, which could be protective.

Sis is incredible at this, but then the moth's do what they do best: blend in and be still for hours or a day. This lack of noise and camouflaging foils the cat system: often the moth wins out, just to be found by me a few months later, dried up.   Gaslighters are these moths: there seems to be a trail, but nature's chameleons with out. Nature's moths that can blend in with a tree's bark with out over predator's most times.




Perhaps we could see the inner selves, inner function, or inner heroes as metaphoric characters like the 3 Stooges: in always trying to help they always create a grand mess


Perhaps we could see the inner selves, inner function, or inner heroes as metaphoric characters like the 3 Stooges: in always trying to help they always create a grand mess
Perhaps we could see the inner selves, inner function, or inner heroes as metaphoric characters like the 3 Stooges: in always trying to help they always create a grand mess

Perhaps we could see the inner selves, inner function, or inner heroes as metaphoric characters like the 3 Stooges: in always trying to help they always create a grand mess
Here, let me help you with that Gaslighter there, telling you that you're crazy.
(the Inner Selves, helpful or not. Concepts developed in two fields: psychosynthesis of 100 years ago, and Archetypal Psychology of the last 50 years)









The human mind has many such protections. Our mind and brain are trying to protect us in the best way it can, and unfortunately, filtering out dangers is one way to not go insane from information overload.

These below are all extremely common to all persons.

*A. One Reaches a point of "no longer able to see the threat" because it seems ordinary: point of desensitization. Typically we should be able to "see" threats: we are aware of them.
We can see threats, and ignore them (kids these days have a shocking abundance of movies where heroes and heroines are smocking cigarettes, as a part of cool, in group, or edginess in a dark movie).  Ignored is information they're blasted with daily at school and in tv counter-smoking advertisements.
We can see threats, but are desensitized to them: we drive fast or text while driving, sharp or hot objects in a baby's house are ignored as "common place" in our mind.

*B. Makes up Threats:
Our mind can go incredibly sour, and take on negative perspectives. Please see the article on the Gnome of the Mind.
Our mind under many situations can see only the negative, and take on a despairing and hopeless perspective. One quits when hundreds of things are going right, or one is about to change their larger or smaller communities..... But, like dark old Eeyore in the Milne' Pooh stories, "It's a gloomy world, why bother".

*C. Doesn't even see threats.

Ignores Ordinary Dangers:
Something seems so normal, that we forget it's dangerous. Daily, I can see at least 2 very young women, and 1 middle or older age woman texting in their car, despite both laws and ghastly TV crash stories. Our mind seeks to help us with information overload. We have to filter out so much information daily as our minds would never comprehend it. Scientists have found our human focus on real issues is pretty limited: we filter out 99% of the flood of information around it. We can't blame this on the age we live in, blaming it on the information age overload. The human mind has always had to operate this way: the brain is incredible, but not incredible enough to process most of what is around us. Hey, we're just ONE, not a super computer.
Ignores Known Serious Dangers:
The mind eliminates known threats we're desensitized to: a child comes back into the periphery of a molester, and having been desensitized to that through past history will ignore a current one: a person again coming up to them offering candy may be ignored by the desensitized.
A person taken hostage by protesters or hidden in a basement by a sexual deviant may eventually identify with, align with, and support the criminal.

And, as mentioned often here:
*D. Believes what is conned to us


So, we have the con Gaslighter working us, and your brain ignores the signs. This makes it difficult to

  • know the problem
  • fully comprehend the problem
  • and then to rescue our self, to throw our self a lifeline. 



The odds are already stacked against us to really help our self. We have to become as concerted in our efforts of self rescue as the metaphor of the Thai rescue of 18 boys in a cave. We have to "overdo" this process of not "seeing" the threat to then really become aware of the threat. More on this later.


Thailand: momumental effort to rescue 18 boys is a metaphor for self-rescue
Thailand: monumental effort to rescue 18 boys is a metaphor for self-rescue


what you seek is seeking you. rumi


The metaphor's of lighthouses: when will be set our own up, and shine our
self warnings about Gaslighthers? Likely, it follows suffering, learning, mistakes, and time for it to become integrated into our Lighthouse of the Soul. Dr. B

The metaphor's of lighthouses: when will be set our own up, and shine our  self warnings about Gaslighthers? Likely, it follows sufferring, learning, mistakes, and time for it to become integrated into our Lighthouse of the Soul. Dr. B
At some time, it becomes part of our daily awareness, preventative, attractive, welcome, a bastion, a message, a hope

waves crash: The metaphor's of lighthouses: when will be set our own up, and shine our  self warnings about Gaslighthers? Likely, it follows sufferring, learning, mistakes, and time for it to become integrated into our Lighthouse of the Soul. Dr. B
This is my job.

sunset: The metaphor's of lighthouses: when will be set our own up, and shine our  self warnings about Gaslighthers? Likely, it follows sufferring, learning, mistakes, and time for it to become integrated into our Lighthouse of the Soul. Dr. B
constant, has symbolic white light. Reminds, warns, guides

nothing to see here: The metaphor's of lighthouses: when will be set our own up, and shine our  self warnings about Gaslighthers? Likely, it follows sufferring, learning, mistakes, and time for it to become integrated into our Lighthouse of the Soul. Dr. B
something is missing here, Leslie

east coast: The metaphor's of lighthouses: when will be set our own up, and shine our  self warnings about Gaslighthers? Likely, it follows sufferring, learning, mistakes, and time for it to become integrated into our Lighthouse of the Soul. Dr. B
a part of our "landscape" or our "features"

serene serenity: The metaphor's of lighthouses: when will be set our own up, and shine our  self warnings about Gaslighthers? Likely, it follows sufferring, learning, mistakes, and time for it to become integrated into our Lighthouse of the Soul. Dr. B
Protects your valuables, worth, story, life. Is the guardian to the port or shipping lane

perpetual waves of PTSD on lighthouse: The metaphor's of lighthouses: when will be set our own up, and shine our  self warnings about Gaslighthers? Likely, it follows sufferring, learning, mistakes, and time for it to become integrated into our Lighthouse of the Soul. Dr. B
for some with PTSD, depression, prior victims or have been bullied, alcohol and drug addicts: the barrage may be continual... and needs planned for thus

we visit: The metaphor's of lighthouses: when will be set our own up, and shine our  self warnings about Gaslighthers? Likely, it follows sufferring, learning, mistakes, and time for it to become integrated into our Lighthouse of the Soul. Dr. B
we like, visit, are aware of: our own inner lighthouse. It's not ignored. Even if it includes a cute pony like this one, we don't participate in the mocking of our protects. That would make us a gaslighter, bully, psychopaths

antique postal card: The metaphor's of lighthouses: when will be set our own up, and shine our  self warnings about Gaslighthers? Likely, it follows sufferring, learning, mistakes, and time for it to become integrated into our Lighthouse of the Soul. Dr. B
Nice!

wave barrage: The metaphor's of lighthouses: when will be set our own up, and shine our  self warnings about Gaslighthers? Likely, it follows sufferring, learning, mistakes, and time for it to become integrated into our Lighthouse of the Soul. Dr. B
zowie, glad you're here!!

red warning light: The metaphor's of lighthouses: when will be set our own up, and shine our  self warnings about Gaslighthers? Likely, it follows sufferring, learning, mistakes, and time for it to become integrated into our Lighthouse of the Soul. Dr. B
some often gaslighted need a red light of warning

dramatic waves: The metaphor's of lighthouses: when will be set our own up, and shine our  self warnings about Gaslighthers? Likely, it follows sufferring, learning, mistakes, and time for it to become integrated into our Lighthouse of the Soul. Dr. B
the waves engulf and fully test the lighthouse: that is their nature. That is the nature of the Gaslighter too. 




















She finds out he killed her mother: just wants the rubies

She finds out he killed her mother: just wants the rubies

Gaslight Attacks

Gaslight Attacks