Here's some advice. Now, don't use it.
Most information you find on narcissism, gaslighters, and psychopaths is wrong/flawed, weak, even dangerous, though all the authors are well intended. They are just not educated on the pervasive danger of the Dark Disordered.
Here is a summary of this video.
This video has major flaws in concepts, I do not recommend it. This video does credit the guile, dangers, and multi methods of the Dark Disordered.
DO NOT USE THESE: This is an invitation for the narcissist to harm, the vampire to feed again and again.
1. I'm sorry you feel that way.
2. I can accept your faulty perception of me.
3. ....................
(I leave this one out because it's so dangerous. It's not valid)
4. I have to accept that this is how you feel.
The author is wrong about acceptance and "love" of the narcissist.
4. assumes that not playing the game ends the problem with the narcissist. If they're in a hate or smear campaign, it will never never stop.
5. You're anger is not my responsibility.
Well, that's what the world said about Hitler until 11 million people were killed.
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