The gaslighter is in control best, and calm when he has orchestrated you having a fight with another, or creating a situation of tension: you're watching him flirt with a relationship or sexual competitor: the aware other.
Catfishing: Let's You Guys There have a brawl.
or, the brawl can be unconscious tension you feel.....still, this is the designed brawl.
Sometimes, you may feel like the bottom feeder catfish role he forces you into, but at other times, you feel like mush: powerless, confused, mixed up.
In terms of fishing, that catfish mush is called "chum". Fish blended up, bloodied, to attract fish that are "better" in the narcissist's mind:
Catfishing: Let's You Guys There have a brawl.
or, the brawl can be unconscious tension you feel.....still, this is the designed brawl.
Sometimes, you may feel like the bottom feeder catfish role he forces you into, but at other times, you feel like mush: powerless, confused, mixed up.
In terms of fishing, that catfish mush is called "chum". Fish blended up, bloodied, to attract fish that are "better" in the narcissist's mind:
And, chum is not a pretty sight:
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