Jenga: Your Narrative Just Got Knocked out from Under You....

What happens to a person Gaslighted, attacked by a political psychopath, bully parent, or abusive narcissistic boss?

"Psychopathic brilliance meets your vulnerabilities, known or unknown"

A week link or vulnerability is used by "psychopathic brilliance"

a. a lifetime of skill and knowledge is dedicated to the "taking" via the attacks and methods
(see links to the book resources above on the 100 methods).
b. a brain then becomes dedicated to this:
narcissistic and taking methods of  attacker are combined with a brain without compassion, depth of feelings, remorse: the brain becomes one overtaken, dedicated to, and supercharged to function as that 17 year old regressed mind out to "get for me", greed, self serving, ego stroking,,,,,etc.

The result:

Your story of your life is gone....and their narrative or story is nourished, fed, grown...

Attacks range from sneaky vulnerability attacks, development of weaponry (the potato rubber band shooter....it's oddity confounds us), or just outright fist smashing.....

For them, it's the game of life, fun, but for you, it's the dissolution of life as you see it.

Jenga

How, then, does one rebuild?


Here are a few ideas, metaphors from pictures and some videos on Africa from the BBC:


What healing metaphor are you using?


1. we must become the inner child again: be willing to play again, start, trust

2. We get back to our story narrative, like these videos symbolically explain:


https://www.bbc.com/reel/playlist/captains-of-africa?vpid=p072cxy7

https://www.bbc.com/reel/playlist/captains-of-africa?vpid=p072chdl  

Your Narrative Just Got Knocked out from Under You....

Look for the Confident Smiles, the fake actor Smiles, and you may have found the Gaslighter and Psychopath

Tips to catch the real thief:

1. Always ask: who is the real criminal here. The real criminal is not the first choice and not the obvious criminal. There are reasons for that, explained in all articles this site!
2. Follow the money: ask yourself who or how can skilled criminals gain $ from this. Money is the only basis for the act: selfish gain, though it may be hidden from public view, or not known for a few years. It may also surprise you: the gain is very simple: this funny video really shows the real drives of Pirates: to get all the gold, wenches, castles, land, rare jewels, you can, fast, taking from others who owned it, by any means:
3. Who is the one pointing the blame at others: this might be a clue to who that thief is.
4. Is Gaslighting going on?
5. Look for who's smiling: that's a good clue to find the "actor" gaslighters, cons, thieves
6. 
   

find out what Gaslighting and the methods of con, propaganda and making you doubt what is really happening:

https://gaslightattack.blogspot.com/

find hundreds articles on gangs, mafia, when psychopaths meet each other, methods of Pirates / Vampires / Political Psychopaths:

https://narcissistdonaldtrump.blogspot.com/

Murder of Khashoggi, Update January 14, 2019

How does a real matter fade into obscurity and propagandized matters of fake crisis rise? Saudi Arabia Khashoggi murder:

1.Trump sends a flurry of contacts to Saudi Arabia for "appearances" of punishment of country
2. Trump announces all types of threats against Saudi Arabia: a bluster for show
3. Saudi Arabia has a pattern of hiring top US political strategist and lobbies, has hired strategist consultants on how to handle the US on the matter, and distracts US other matters.
4. Previously, Saudi Arabia stated charges followed by death sentence would follow for the murder team, though in a game of political chess, Saudi Arabia will cave to public pressure to not kill them.....and look the hero
5. But then, a sea of smiles takes over, even most with the accused Crown Prince who is linked to direction of the murder

and,
This is all despite mountains of forensic evidence linking the 15 member murder team to the Crown Prince!

See the tips above again: the real matter is lost in an ocean of smiles.....what does that mean?

Look for the Confident Smiles, the fake actor Smiles, and you may have found the Gaslighter and Psychopath

Clue 2: Follow the money

What is the motivation of all Gang Mafia members involved: it's the simple goal of the 17 year old regressed con / pirate / oligarch, as portrayed in this parody video:

Gaslighting Clue 1
Ask Yourself Who’s Smiling
and Who’s not.
Find out how the Con / Thief / Political Pirates manage
 image and use propaganda to create a “new truth”
seen by you and the public to now be “Real”:
@ https://gaslightattack.blogspot.com/

Grandiosity and Hate may be signs of pastor / priest psychopaths

Not all pastors and priests are bad. But one needs to be on guard to see the ordinary taking psychopath, to see the clues via grandiosity and disparaging others. Where do these dangerous narcissists find a place or career to hide? Not all are bad, but here they are:

Many dangerous narcissistic types seek jobs where they can do their deeds, be themselves....get strokes, attention, take, get followers......hide that they are "fakes"....

How common is this?

1. Priests and pastors 33% qualify
2. Car Salesmen Personality Type: cons 40% (this is a "type" of personality: sales without regard to the welfare of the other: taking and sales with hidden fees, prices, that will come back on the buyer. This is not the salesman of a pearl or diamond with an upfront inflated price, but where conning is being done)
3. Attorneys 60%
4. higher elected politicians in the US; 60%: though is varies in other countries (Mexico where they tend to get killed and are altruistic 33% are part of the corrupt system, Brazil where corruption in politics reigns 90%).
5. felons, petty thieves, repeat offenders in prison, gang leaders, drug lords, grifters, sales cons, investment cons, love scam cons 95%
6. KKK hate supremacists groups 99%

Do these Jobs or "roles" make these criminals. No. They had this personality disordering from childhood and gravitated to these jobs and roles where they could function as psychopaths.

One problem of psychopathic abuses is not just what they steal, but the giant circle of abused left in their paths.....like a drop into water, ripples

ABC full article on this:

https://goo.gl/7mMUnB

Grandiosity and Hate may be signs of pastor / priest psychopaths

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click on this Youtube Video

The opposite of Transparency: False Pirate Image

Pirates have a secret side and identity. It's often covered up with an image of  shock, power, invulnerability, threat to you, blood and death. A good portrayal of this is in the Skull and Crossbones flag, and the actual use of pyrotechnics by some pirates to create fear in others.

Full archive of articles on Pirates and political pirates worldwide, and your books on Political Pirates:


https://narcissistdonaldtrump.blogspot.com/


see the cloud archive at the bottom of that blog for pirate articles, as well as other topics


What thoughts and feelings do these pix of the Skull And Crossbones flag embellishments of today generate for you?

One website featuring one of these was about the "swagger" of the con, pirate, false heroic image. Surely, image, presence, acting and swagger are part of the actor's act of the political pirate.
(see the link above for articles on the Political Pirate and Political Psychopaths as ACTORS ACTING: PUTTING ON THE FACADE.

Why are criminals heroized?

See the link above for how our brain helps us to be fooled, plus see the conning methods of pirates and psychopaths in books listed above:

We fall for the con, believe the bluster, but also go a step further in their conning:


We all are vulnerable to their acting con, and fooled. That's the way conning works! It's not just a weakness of the immature teen boy, or the vulnerable adult with a weakness:



Synonyms for emulate:

a verb

• copy the actions of
• follow suit
• imitate
• mimic
• mirror
• rise to the con challenge
• feel energized to compete
• ditto
• do
• follow
• outvie, run, feels adrenaline to charge ahead 
• rival, feel like one of the Mafia
• do like
• follow in footsteps
• follow the example of
• go like
• make like
• pattern after
• revitalize: find a new life in the life of the Pirate and their lifestyle of booze, babes, theft, riches, Islands, etc
• find a purpose in what they do say, feel a part of the team (mafia, gang of thieves, though the ideals are sold as "good, pure, ideal, Christian, etc.)
• take after
• vie with: see them as an example, prod, pull, hero

Pirates are actors, and convey that image that is admired by many because of the acting, swagger, and con.

But, the real intent of the Pirate is hidden by a veil:


This is the opposite of Transparency


The hidden covers up the true nature of the Pirate, the Political Psychopath, and mythic Vampires:

• imperceptible
• microscopic
• unseen
• inconspicuous
• unseeable
• concealed
• covert
• deceptive
• disguised
• ethereal
• gaseous
• ghostly
• ideal
• impalpable
• imponderable
• inappreciable
• indiscernible
• infinitesimal
• insensible
• intangible
• masked
• not in sight
• obliterated
• obscured
• occult
• out of sight
• screened
• supernatural
• ulterior
• unapparent
• undisclosed
• ungraspable
• unnoticeable
• unobservable
• unperceivable
• unreal
• unviewable
• vaporous
• veiled
• wraithlike

for important documentaries on the true nature of Pirates: 

10 books on Political psychoapths and links to video documentaries on pirates:

https://narcissistdonaldtrump.blogspot.com/

plus 12 powerful 1 hour free videos by BBC, National Geographic and others on historical and current pirates: a metaphor for the Political Pirates in office worldwide:

https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=pirates+documentary

"The very worst pirate is the con and thief next door or or a community or political leader followed without question, a slick in political office: looking patriotic, kind, responsible, and helpful just like any serial killer. With a hidden side like all mass shooters, they fool and con, and are above suspect of all. Therefore, we have to know the characteristics of psychopathy and mythic vampires." 

They may take your rights, like Putin, your life like John Wayne Gacy, your Brain like Hannibal Lecter, your goods like all world despots, or your heart and lifeblood like a mythic Vampire or Siren"

10% of the population may have this antisocial conning taking theft personality, so it's important you know about it.*

Dr. B

*How that be 10% of the population? Traits and groups of:

psychopathy, political psychopathy, narcissistic personality disorder, anti-social personality disorder, criminal patterns, cons, petty thieves and most repeat  felons, and drug users or Angry PTSD victims who've lost their sense of compassion for others and take without regard, despots, dictators, many politicians and lawyers, sociopaths, real pirates and those conned into crimes like ISIS,  see percentages and how to identify: books above. 

Secret Sex, part of the Gaslighter's life? You decide.

After the Nixon impeachment which was cut short by his resignation, Bill Clinton was caught in an ocean of lies, including his Shady Investments and Sexual Scandals. These two Impeachment matters have great parallels to Trump:

**sexual scandals: several lengthy affairs, hookers, and a pattern of sexual philandering: egotistical and conquest oriented sexual encounters without end, without end.

**shady deals for monstrous personal gain: properties and money investments

**lies and cons of the public: gaslighting

**suppression of the Press, lack of transparency

Dog Poop on Your Lawn? Gaslighters Maligning Peace and Collaboration

Maybe real leaders would ask, what is the root problem here, poverty and jobs, and what can I / we do to be a positive and active influence to that, now? How can the US be a Leader instead of a punisher? What will it take for people from these countries to feel save and thriving there? Leadership is a bridge to others.



How is the propaganda of the political psychopath and gaslighter both:
a con
and a dog pooping on something you value?

We've lost touch with our own historical projects of Peace Corps, and connections with peoples projects run by our State Department (managed by US Embassies and Consulates worldwide......but disappearing fast).

For more info on War Against You, see our older blog with archived articles by topic, and books on War Against You: Trump:


https://narcissistdonaldtrump.blogspot.com/


How was Peace maligned, who discounted US peace initiatives including work by US Consulates, Embassies, the Peace Corps, and the UN????
Ignoring or Pooing on a concept, a cherished one:

Peace Corps:
https://goo.gl/uh5SKA


eco, wells:

https://goo.gl/moH9po

forgiveness of student loans by service:
https://goo.gl/CsxKwP



forgiveness of student loans by non-profits and NGOs:
https://goo.gl/JPSgxe



Being overly nice to Gaslighters gets you disrespected and shat upon. This "I'll only take the high road", is ok with normal people but not gaslighters and their mental conned zombies:

Because of this, other methods must be used, those that are not the high road or low road, but a direct treatment of the problem: stopping

.

It's 10 O'Clock. Where is your President?

Is he visiting some disaster victims, talking on the phone to a suffering laid off worker, intervening with the health crisis of migrants at the border or Yemen, visiting a National Park like Yellowstone in winter to promote awareness and environmental care, meeting with a woman / a Hispanic / a Native American to understand and include, or any of 1,000 other things?

It's 10 O'Clock. Where is your President?

What world issues are ignored by your leaders, where compassion goes beyond platitudes and cons?

Beware, an event planned with cameras, fine clothes and speeches is not one of the above: that's the con in action. That is fake compassion.



How to tell a political psychopath from a compassionate leader:




Here are 15 tools: Several books point out how to detect psychopaths in our midst: they're everywhere and there are perhaps 1 in 10 around you that are dangerous narcissists. Here are other stats of how many narcissists are also psychopathic takers (having traits of anti-social personality disorder, take from any, and lack compassion in their person and actually lack that feature in their brains. Percentage of persons that likely have common psychopathic disorder and pose short term and long term danger to you and others (they actually don't get "better" but become worse over time:




15 books on how to tell psychopaths from others: including a "field guide" and book of their methods and strategies.
https://gaslightattack.blogspot.com/p/25-books-on-gaslighters.html

• attorneys: 40% of them
• police officers that needed weeded out at the git go: 15% (and, that also says 85% are great, the others though, are bad seeds)
• common criminals, breaking and enter types with repeated offenses: 60%
• general population of prisoners: 70%
• population of prisoners with repeat offenses: 90%
• car salesmen: people who sell and hide fees, and feel justified taking from others: 40%
• cons, grifters, repeated cheats: 90%
• mass killers, serial killers, sado-masochists: 100%

And, there are those who become this by life events, brain damage, depression, inherited features. There are those who have degrees of "culturally taught narcissism, crime, and psychopathy. This happens all over, and next door to you, but one example we might understand: persons following other dictators or corrupt leaders fall into that line, and take money and bribes, And, their personality changes, but also that feature in the mind of understanding and compassion is changed forever: lessened. For short videos on this, see:


the tab at

https://narcissistdonaldtrump.blogspot.com/p/blog-page.html

This is a metaphor for all times:

will we and our leaders promote world peace and environmental healing, or will we seek battles with other leaders, both playing as a mental psychopath chess game of power and selfish material gain. Just who shit on attitudes of peace, cooperation, respect for women and races, income equity for all? Those who did that shat: they're the ones hiding their wealth and greed, their root motive. We can take back: world peace as an agenda of my government, aid, bridges, dialogue. Who took away rules protecting our rivers and National Parks? We can take back our own heritage, hope, and joy.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z8Vfp48laS8