Tokenism of Minorities: Gaslighter Brad Little, When Respect is Fake Respect, Using others

Brad Little is running for Idaho Governor. He's an ultra conservative

• Tokenism
• fake respect
• using others
• using token minorities to further one's political career

Last week, a Hispanic person said: "he always says to Hispanics and in meetings he respects us.".

My response: Leo, you're a person who doesn't watch TV. I caught his ads:

• there'll be no Sancturary Cities
• Build the Wall now
• and lock up all the criminals (any person who entered the country illegally, including most persons you know who may even have citizenship, green cards or other ID's now.....but at some time, last year, or 30 years ago, entered illegally. 
• reverse gay marriage 

Click here: how is tokenism a campaign to fool others

Have you considered that what people say is Trumped by what they do??

His interests are basically that of other Rich Rancher Idaho Politicians: line their own pockets and promote laws only in the interest of Ranchers. Oddly, I don't see your name Leo, or the word Hispanics in this equation.

Don't be silent, don't be "fake respectful". Stand up, speak up, get pissed.

Discrimination and Reverse Discrimination: Fake Respect is Fake Respect

Grifters

6.  Chum baiters:  chum baiting is a con method we discuss at our other blog: Gaslight Attackers.



The other day, at my gym a new trainer "chatted me up". He was "chum baiting" for new training customers, and had good skills. And, as a former Mormon Missionary, he had real formal training and 2 years reinforced work on their method: chat people up, relate, and then keep on target with the goal. Reinforce the goal, stay on track, keep relating all materials to the goal: conversion to Mormonism, or "proselytizing".  As a religious grifter, he was good. And, I noticed after just a few days of his "working it", he had done two things:
a. he was developing a large following, and would continue to build that. Although he is overweight, and only has 4 months experience (actually the very minimum to get an online trainer certificate, one you mostly pay a price for the paper), he was demonstrating herding of the sheep.
b. he has that grifter personality: warm and friendly, boy next door, trustworthy, kind and interested in you (but that interest has a hidden agenda at every minute). He knows how to use eyes, body language, cultural phrases of the gym and local culture (Western). Without batting an eye, he told me the first 20 seconds his two directives: first he was a Mormon, and second he's a trainer "poor little old me trying to build up a training business out of nothing and I'll give you a free session".
c. he threw out the chum bait to me, and I took it for a few minutes and gloated, "you're lifting a massive weight there man". "You don't need much help, just a tweak or two". "But, I'm not really selling my training here and now, I'm just meeting cool guys in the gym".
d. I can fully predict the outcome with "Rich" in two years: he'll leave this non-Mormon gym in two years, and take his 1,000 clients with him. And, in leaving, he'll use the Mormon approach of how to say something negative about another, imply that they have weakness, without really saying it or without having evidence of negative words for the Gym to use against me personally or in court....because I'm entitled to steal, and I'm taught to steal:

Well, I'm incredibly overweight like him, and not one of the cool guys.

Now, I've seen his use of a female roper. The grifter has a "pretty female" that brings men into a con by her looks. Jeff has a guise: he has a 100 lb model, that it appears he is providing training for her. Mostly though, he's using her smile and "pouty breasts" in something rather rehearsed. I'm not even sure he's a heterosexual, but this roping them in is a show better than any proselytizing Lagoon LDS Theme Park Western Shoot Out Drama. He then follows up on days she's not there, chatting up old fat men, like me, whom he thinks are vulnerable.

In two years, the gym will lose Rich. He'll take the clients, they'll rebuild. Interestingly, you have to look for clues to grifters, chum baiters, gaslighters, and ropers. A movie, very old, feebly addresses this: Grifters

watch this old movie on any stream service

this is part of a full article at our other blog:

https://iamthemuseiseek.blogspot.com/2018/06/from-stilletos-to-antipschotics-and.html

Who is Emmett Till. 14 year old, lynched.

This is Emmett Till.
He is the victim of a Gaslight Attach, that ended in his lynching.
14 years old. He was innocent, just looked wrong, out of place....his only problem that day was he was seen as a "dirty nigger", a lesser creature, a person to be put in his place, by a bigoted white woman.......possibly even a church going woman.....

Emmett, to all others except one bigot, was known as fine, kind, good and more.

What can one gaslighting bigot do?
Answer: gaslight the story and get a lynch mob worked up. Kill one or many persons.


Do you know the traits of the psychopathic gaslighter? Do you know how others can be incited to a lynching? See the resources on this on this blog's page.

Emmett Louis Till (July 25, 1941 – August 28, 1955) was a 14-year-old African-American who was lynched in Mississippi in 1955, after a white woman said she was offended by him in her family's grocery store. The brutality of his murder and the fact that his killers were acquitted drew attention to the long history of violent persecution of African Americans in the United States. Till posthumously became an icon of the Civil Rights Movement.

Full story:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emmett_Till

This is his mother.

This is his memorial sign, bullet destroyed 2017, soon to be replaced and a target for more bigots in 2018....

Who is Emmett Till and why should you care?

Some gaslighter psychopaths kill the body, some kill the soul.....but, they kill. 

When our hidden needs, desires, and vulnerabilities rise: Hansel and Gretel

Recently, I was conned. Well, what is being conned but our own vulnerabilities, flaws in our "psychic" armor, and unrecognized but spilling out unconscious needs and desires.....we are an active participant.

One world news expert said on the Telly that Trump has a critical parent role with most, but that others have that child role: and both are willing participants in the "story" of life....any one can back out, though with many critical parents that are in authority and tend to be psychopathic, there are true dangers for the metaphoric child. At least at first.

What was the con? I was invited in to the home of a person. In moments, I was shown about, given a full house tour, fawned over, praised, given warmth and a home. So I thought. The only sign I had, and ignored was a necklace the person had on of a specific group religious symbol. It could have been any group, I'm not against groups or faith so I don't mention that here. It could be any group, church, or political element worldwide:

It could have been:

• a religious group
• a political group
• a dangerous cult
• a business cult
• a psychological cult 
• a for or against ideology of ANY sort (for or against Green Planet, house plants, DIY, shopping at Costco, having the best wine or olive oil, new cars vs old cars,,,,,,,etc. etc. etc. 

And, it could have been a "pro group", or an anti-group. It could have been any of Ronald Reagan's moralistic groups out to find immoral or communist like people, like his MPAA. It could have been McCarthy recruiting anti-communists to "protect America", or it could have been psychopath Judge Roy Cohn hosting a yacht cocktail party to gain influence for his anti-gay communist movement (though a homophobic homosexual).

It could have been any group for something, but also against an innocent group or idea. It could have been pro or con. It could have been for the True Savior and against the True Evil one, or it could have been for the anti-truth: don't be conned by the establishment, The True Evil One has been misnamed and the "that group's True Savior is actually Satan".

What is the archetype and symbol of the wicked witch in Hansel and Gretel?

Theme: parents want to get rid of  the children due to the burden of : an uninvited journey or mini-life quest is thrust upon the two. Most of life's lessons and quests are not chosen, they're tossed onto us. We find purpose, meaning, and soul often later on for that story. It's confusing and threatening to us. The journey itself always has threats, or else it would not be important, get our attention, or complete it's intended soul lesson.

Two, Hansel and Gretel represent actually one person, and are the two parts within us: masculine and feminine. 

Their parents want to get rid of them due to the burden of feeding them and have more food for themselves: we all must leave our parents, differentiate, and recognize our parents poor values or recognize our parents are becoming in age child-like.

We're drawn in to the candy pastry house: our weaknesses, unconscious desires, and childish wants finally come out.....perhaps we're caught off guard with the depth of our need or the quantity of salivating at the "candy".  Desire, needs, wants, hunger, seeking and deserving more......what comes out of our basement in hungry force?

The story: 

We're naive

Our unconscious desires, needs, wants, and VULNERABILITIES rise

We must deal with our self,,,,,or they consume us.

The witch intends to eat them: our inner hidden can destroy us, forever...... Examples:

One likes some idea, experience, desire so much that it takes over the whole Self, and the Soul is lost: I see this in Brazilians who are so torn by reality on the poverty streets that they escape by sniffing potent glue. Yes, escape from harmful realities is good, but what is a real escape? In this story, the glue sniffed is so powerful that portions of the brain, mind, soul, and life are destroyed with each use....and the loss is not retrievable. 

Or, one becomes so overtaken by an ideal that all else is lost: in being committed to some ultra conservative religio-political cult, there are two outcomes of the Hansel and Gretels:

a. person A represses desire, sex, fun, rebellion, creativity: and a million secret sex affairs are forged

b. person B represses the same, but becomes priggish and closed off to life, and a soul of creating, risking, desire, fun, learning, failing, and exploring is lost in some ranting blog.........perhaps even leading a few to become mass killers or ISIS recruits.....  (oddly, as recruits they may be celibate and morally constrained as their leaders teach them to be.....but as with the case of all "finger pointing and scapegoating groups", the leaders are lavishing themselves with sex, many wives, cars, luxuries, cigars, wine.....even in ISIS).

The Witch: our inner Feminine Creator, using feminine wiles to accomplish some evil dead. 

And, this Witch is like any Witch or Siren: deception is used for evil. True story: one day I talked to two women in my therapy office: one was a prostitute in Nevada, and actually was straight forward and demonstrated "moralities" others would ignore due to her chosen profession. The same day a client came in, a religious and priggish woman how had negative views of me, and most others. She was manipulative to get her way, bringing in a lovely peach cobbler for me. The, she worked in session of getting what she wanted: she wanted validation her husband was a ass, and she was justified in her daily punishment of him, that ass.  The later case demonstrated the feminine role of creative woman turned to the darkside: evil "eating" and consuming of the masculine or others after the con of getting them inside the house. 

Another view of this feminine turning to the darkside:

But, we're vulnerable, and learn.....

You survive and are no longer naive. You've left your parents metaphor of life, and faced your desires.  You then are smarter or consumed by them.

Siren, another symbol of the feminine gone wrong, taking over, using wiles to a wicked advantage. 

more Siren images:

https://goo.gl/3gLa2S

The Gaslight of the Witch of Hansel and Gretel

Here is a short photo story of Hansel and Gretel:

Hansel and Gretel, Grimm's fairy tale is symbolic of our lives, archetype.

• The Gaslight of the Witch of Hansel and Gretel

• The naive participation by Hansel and Gretel

• A universal tale and warning fair tale

1. naive

2. wanting "that or their stuff, candies and goodies" of any symbolic sort

3. come in, I'm so innocent, old and known to you, safe

4. come in, I'll help you lost children

5. I'm gonna eat you....

It's not there. What's wrong with you?

Hiding the Truth: You didn't see that.

When is something hidden in art?

Versus, this: 

When are you told something is not there, but it really was / is???

When is the Gaslighter's Sexual actions not about Sex?

When is the Gaslighter's Sexual actions not about Sex?

As I posted some information and a panel yesterday about gaslighters that flirt, or even have "harems" of sexual partners (gay or straight), the intent is to have a supply of victims.

These victims are of two types:

• those cod fish and those catfish, a metaphor
• 
  
• those desired sexually, so called "sexy person's" in the mind of the gaslighter, versus other dummies that are being manipulated. 

I wanted to be sure to add the panel, that our conversations are not be anti-sex, anti-sexuality, or a reason to jump on some moralistic "Prohibition" type bandwagon, as we often do. 

Here is that panel:

1. we are driven more than we know or accept that we "look" at others sexually attractive to us. Our brain is created thus. And, this all varies from person to local / country cultures.  Both men and women "look" with no intention of bringing the other into the Narcissistic Supply Circle of use and abuse. There is no ultimate plan to use and abuse, though affairs occur often.  Sex and Morals are not a matter for the Gaslighter, but psychological control and use human "resource / food / workers / soilent green, is. 

2. the Gaslighter though does this with a plan: the wife (the audience) must see eye dart, hear the "she's a beautiful human, or get wind of the sexy Tweet for it to be effective and part of the plan: the bottom feeder catfish, often a spouse, must know of the act toward the "cod" person to be brought into the cycle.  

So, how do we differentiate those with normal sexual actions or normal deviations that are discounted by society? 

Gaslighting, viewed as onging in a person's life and not just a single situation:

20% of men and 10% of women that have significant Narcissitic Personality Disorder  Traits

5% of the population who have psyhopathy, sociopathy, and antisocial personality disorder

.5% of the population Serial Killers (having psychopathy, narcissism, sociopathy plus antisocial personality disorder)

criminals, felons, cons with antisocial personality disorder

other disorders, including borderline, pathological lying, adult PTSD with childhood trauma, paranoid, pathological liars

those missing diagnosis, seen as just "Angry Young men shooting in bars post Iraq" or "Crazy women who kill their kids"

How can sex and sexuality be distinguished from the Gaslighter's sexual harem and flirting that is "the maintenance of narcissistic supply"?

While an extreme case, the story of Ted Bundy, the experts remind, while Bundy gaslights and blames his problems on pornography, his cruel psychopathic disorder is the root of his problems.

7 Things That Terrify Narcissists To Their Core | Conscious Reminder

summary of this video at Youtube.com

1. abandonment

This is seen as rejection of their self, you'll be punished by rage and smear campaigns

2. being made fun of

they have no humor

they may chuckle if you're harmed or fall, but it's a mocking, and not humor

jokes of them or poked fun is dangerous to do

jokes are an alluding to their inner emptiness versus their flimsy strong false image of them self: they'll destroy you to protect that image of themselves they have

3. being disrespected

4. being ingnored

they need the "narcissistic supply"

and, they like positive attention and negative attention (criticism), because it affirms they are. Ignoring does not.

5. exposure of vulnerabilities, true ones

called out. They respond with silent treatment or gaslighting

they use "flying monkeys", like on Wizard of Oz, other persons to attack you.

6. loss of the trappings of youth and success

Note: the author has several good points here. A movie that demonstrates how the narcissist becomes cranky and mean in old age is Citizen Cohn. Excellent movie on narcissistic abuse in old age. 

7. death

the anihalation of the ego, their meaning, all they are. Some may also feel they're going to hell and fear that. 

Deceptology

Deception

Deceptology

What do those two words mean?
Why is deception used?
How did narcissists and psychopaths become so associated with the deception attitude and process?
Where else beside the mental disorders do we see the use of deception?
Is there a negative and a beneficial deception?


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Gaslighting: To make you upset, confused, angry, and doubt

Some points from this good video:

1. they seek to make you upset, confused, angry, to doubt what happened.
2. it makes you feels crazy if you recognize it
3. there is a recovery process
4. know the signs
5. while several mental disorder persons use gaslighting, narcissism is the top user
6. most gaslighters, when they want to, are charming
7. the use your insecurities, and they use it now, or in the future file it away: make later comments or pokes at you
8. they are intuitive about this: your insecurities and fears
9. ultimate goal: doubt, so they can control you
10.  they test your out even with false comments, then watch your reaction, then use that info against you
11. you've forgotten what is "normal" because of their campaign against you
12. they'll knock down your confidence
13. they "diagnose you" like a doctor, to tell you what's wrong with you, especially your sanity
called paranoid, stressed out, needs therapy, pms,
14. they don't mind hurting you, and even enjoy it
15. you doubt your own beliefs and perceptions
16. if you then question your own judgement based on "their view", you might make drastic moves like leave a spouse, job, give up and idea or hobby
17. they have selective memory: they conveniently forget bad behaviors and words
Me?
This is their denying, though likely they really do remember
18. they even portray abusing you as normal
19. they are easily angered and upset by EVERYTHING, and use that as intimidation. One might, you the victim, lie or cover things to not have this anger and abuse, though this abuse you're aware of.
20. you stop talking about yourself around the Narcissist and then eventually others: you don't know how to talk about yourself.
21. you believe the manipulation: you really are the crazy one.
wrong: you owe that person an apology. They'll use this apology against you later.
22. depression, exhaustion,
23. you feel you're overly sensitive to the issues: but instead it's happening.
They use this against you.
24. You lose sense of Self

"It didn't Happen". Daily Gaslighting

It was a story I had some history with.

When in college, I took a road trip with some friends to visit the Grand Canyon and Tucson, Arizona. It was a great and fun trip. After passing the Grand Canyon we stopped in a Northern Arizona tourist shop. There was a display of some posters that featured the Crimson Cliffs of that area. They're so magnificent. The display said on a card: how many faces can you find hidden in the cliffs.  There were some initials and numbers, the highest indicated one person saw or felt they saw 47 faces hidden.


The Red Cliffs of Sedona, Arizona.

Someday, I'll locate the original poster, from decades back.

Now, as a child, I grew up with this in the Sunday Newspaper Funnies. I always loved those sections of the large colored Sunday cartoon section that featured the "How many can you find in this picture". Hidden were a dozen rabbits in the graphic or eleven ships hidden in some backyard scene. Usually, mom, getting up early, had circled some, but always missed a couple.

So, things are hidden in photos?

for a collection of "land form faces", see:
http://astro.wsu.edu/worthey/astro/html/im-indian-heads/indian.html

 

The problem is, once you start finding faces in things, it never stops. I'm sure that facial recognition is a brain and survival mechanism in us, the primates, and cats and dogs: we are geared from day one to recognize and gravitate to faces for our survival. And, I have always seen this in my pets as they cue into my face, and particular, eyes. Kittens and puppies gravitate to their own kind, and so interesting as we evolved with these animals, the faces of humans. They see us as just as safe as their mom. That's why taking a box of your kittens to the store parking lot helps you "pass them out", because the kittens or puppies struggle to get to surrounding people.

But, then this ability for me took and odd and for me, troubling direction. Being an amateur rockhound, I had long collected the scenic or picture jaspers, where a landscape image is found in the rock.

Do you find it?

Then, I ran across a new rockhound book of jaspers and agates to add to my collection. I'd actually read the book a couple times and didn't notice, but one day it sprang out at me: hey, there's hidden faces in EACH of the 200 jaspers and agates displayed.

Then, I began to count and circle the faces. But, this was not ordinary, or a fun trick posed in a couple photos. This was massive:

each photo had dozens of very complex photos hidden in the detail of each rock. Some sort of blending or morphing of the graphics had been done, and since the photos were so small, they weren't clearly noticeable. I scoured the Internet to see if there was any documentation of this. I looked back at 20 other gem and mineral guide books, and yes, there were hidden faces, but not of this complexity:

there was a whole Mormon choir, complete with their pipe organ in the background
there were rows of cats and dogs
old pioneer scenes depicted men in a saloon and other situations
and it went on and on

I went to the library in town.  The staff were reluctant to let me talk directly with the librarian with a master's degree in library science, but I pushed my way through. She was irritated with that, and didn't respond to my inquiry for help: are there real scenes hidden here, is this a scam or prank, and does this exist in books and history. I did find that hidden images are a part of art, as both artist prank and as a way to hide secret information.

But, a whole choir, a lady sitting before a mirror?

I wrote to the author several times, and finally caught up with her on Facebook. I asked, "Did your photographer helper do this creativity?"

Well, as an author of books in a dying hobby field, she needs to keep her credibility and royalties going, so what else could she say in any response? "The faces are just inherent to the photos".

It isn't there.
It didn't happen.
You're likely making this up.
Doubt yourself.


In the meantime, the situation and books became so perplexing to me, that I threw them out. I'll get my rock and gem photos only online.....

Is there a daily gaslighting?

No, you're imaging things.