Secret Sex, part of the Gaslighter's life? You decide.

After the Nixon impeachment which was cut short by his resignation, Bill Clinton was caught in an ocean of lies, including his Shady Investments and Sexual Scandals. These two Impeachment matters have great parallels to Trump:

**sexual scandals: several lengthy affairs, hookers, and a pattern of sexual philandering: egotistical and conquest oriented sexual encounters without end, without end.

**shady deals for monstrous personal gain: properties and money investments

**lies and cons of the public: gaslighting

**suppression of the Press, lack of transparency

Dog Poop on Your Lawn? Gaslighters Maligning Peace and Collaboration

Maybe real leaders would ask, what is the root problem here, poverty and jobs, and what can I / we do to be a positive and active influence to that, now? How can the US be a Leader instead of a punisher? What will it take for people from these countries to feel save and thriving there? Leadership is a bridge to others.



How is the propaganda of the political psychopath and gaslighter both:
a con
and a dog pooping on something you value?

We've lost touch with our own historical projects of Peace Corps, and connections with peoples projects run by our State Department (managed by US Embassies and Consulates worldwide......but disappearing fast).

For more info on War Against You, see our older blog with archived articles by topic, and books on War Against You: Trump:


https://narcissistdonaldtrump.blogspot.com/


How was Peace maligned, who discounted US peace initiatives including work by US Consulates, Embassies, the Peace Corps, and the UN????
Ignoring or Pooing on a concept, a cherished one:

Peace Corps:
https://goo.gl/uh5SKA


eco, wells:

https://goo.gl/moH9po

forgiveness of student loans by service:
https://goo.gl/CsxKwP



forgiveness of student loans by non-profits and NGOs:
https://goo.gl/JPSgxe



Being overly nice to Gaslighters gets you disrespected and shat upon. This "I'll only take the high road", is ok with normal people but not gaslighters and their mental conned zombies:

Because of this, other methods must be used, those that are not the high road or low road, but a direct treatment of the problem: stopping

.

It's 10 O'Clock. Where is your President?

Is he visiting some disaster victims, talking on the phone to a suffering laid off worker, intervening with the health crisis of migrants at the border or Yemen, visiting a National Park like Yellowstone in winter to promote awareness and environmental care, meeting with a woman / a Hispanic / a Native American to understand and include, or any of 1,000 other things?

It's 10 O'Clock. Where is your President?

What world issues are ignored by your leaders, where compassion goes beyond platitudes and cons?

Beware, an event planned with cameras, fine clothes and speeches is not one of the above: that's the con in action. That is fake compassion.



How to tell a political psychopath from a compassionate leader:




Here are 15 tools: Several books point out how to detect psychopaths in our midst: they're everywhere and there are perhaps 1 in 10 around you that are dangerous narcissists. Here are other stats of how many narcissists are also psychopathic takers (having traits of anti-social personality disorder, take from any, and lack compassion in their person and actually lack that feature in their brains. Percentage of persons that likely have common psychopathic disorder and pose short term and long term danger to you and others (they actually don't get "better" but become worse over time:




15 books on how to tell psychopaths from others: including a "field guide" and book of their methods and strategies.
https://gaslightattack.blogspot.com/p/25-books-on-gaslighters.html

• attorneys: 40% of them
• police officers that needed weeded out at the git go: 15% (and, that also says 85% are great, the others though, are bad seeds)
• common criminals, breaking and enter types with repeated offenses: 60%
• general population of prisoners: 70%
• population of prisoners with repeat offenses: 90%
• car salesmen: people who sell and hide fees, and feel justified taking from others: 40%
• cons, grifters, repeated cheats: 90%
• mass killers, serial killers, sado-masochists: 100%

And, there are those who become this by life events, brain damage, depression, inherited features. There are those who have degrees of "culturally taught narcissism, crime, and psychopathy. This happens all over, and next door to you, but one example we might understand: persons following other dictators or corrupt leaders fall into that line, and take money and bribes, And, their personality changes, but also that feature in the mind of understanding and compassion is changed forever: lessened. For short videos on this, see:


the tab at

https://narcissistdonaldtrump.blogspot.com/p/blog-page.html

This is a metaphor for all times:

will we and our leaders promote world peace and environmental healing, or will we seek battles with other leaders, both playing as a mental psychopath chess game of power and selfish material gain. Just who shit on attitudes of peace, cooperation, respect for women and races, income equity for all? Those who did that shat: they're the ones hiding their wealth and greed, their root motive. We can take back: world peace as an agenda of my government, aid, bridges, dialogue. Who took away rules protecting our rivers and National Parks? We can take back our own heritage, hope, and joy.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z8Vfp48laS8

The Evil Clown of Death in Mythology

Clowns are not funny. They are rooted in a world mythology of warnings of death. The mythic CLOUN of old was a creature frostbitten and not a funny jack frost: the red nose was frost bitten and rotting.... Like the prior story of Krampus and Wendego....watch out:

Krampus and Wendigo Windigo:
https://gaslightattack.blogspot.com/2018/12/krampus-and-windigo.html

For more on evil clowns, click on books above or here, for the mythology of the evil clown:


https://narcissistdonaldtrump.blogspot.com/

Krampus and Windigo

Krampus and Windigo.
I studied this tradition of the winter monster from many cultural views: a common mythological creature, symbolic of death taking life, and an ancient reminder of fear for children to not wander off from their homes or you risk winter's death. In native American views, this was called Windigo or Wendego..... This creature was common myth of cold climates of the extreme areas of frozen north and southern hemispheres (indigenous Argentina, perhaps other world areas that were warm but had high altitude cold areas). The monster had to have fearful features to get attention....fear is at a gut level. Wendego was a warning to all Native Americans: be like the ant and prepare for winter at all times.....or it was likely you'll die. These fears were common, and life saving as well as fear of knives or sharp objects (humans lived before antibiotics where a cut could kill), fear of heights, fear of dark where there were monsters or the bogeyman. Other mythic fears included the fear of other humans that would take from you: vampires who were cons, evil dictators and pirates, sirens and mermaids who were similar to cons and would eat you, and werewolves (likely these were relatives who would take or kill from other relatives: they'd have one nice character and one evil character, and they were in history, and in our own times a real threat to family members.

video: making the Krampus mask, Europe

http://www.bbc.com/travel/story/20181206-the-man-behind-the-krampus-mask

and, some pix of Wendego on Pinterest:

https://www.pinterest.com/tornronim/windigo-reference/

see also in our books on monsters, vampires, and other creatures:




The myth of the clown is rooted in "jack frost", a mythical winter creature with frost bitten rotting nose, what was also a Krampus winter creature out to kill and eat you!

Gaslighter Political Psychopaths: What is the Super Brain Highway of their Worldview?

Gaslighters are both

asleep at the wheel while playing the killer video game

I love kids: but here is a metaphor: take a 12 year old boy and give him his favorite shooter game, some Funyums to elevate mood....not add a Big Gulp 48 oz super caffeinated and sugared Mountain Dew!  See him buzz.  After, take a look at anything in the surrounding: trash in room, dog not fed, homework not done, no bath taken or teeth brushed, food and Cheetos grease on tshirt, sitting in boxers, no human contact, no human potential met.....

Life has become stopped at a certain mental age, portions of the brain are not used, portions of the brain become super dedicated to the game, outside interests friends and hobbies are to the side and not seen as important, others as humans is devalued, the game becomes all, they become less resilient in life, etc. 

Now, killer video game players is a metaphor of the process of the brain become super focused in one area and leaving other areas behind or shunting them.....video games don't create shooters though, but the desensitize to shooting, games, and killing. For a few but not all, that does allow killing of others or animals. Psychopaths, however, have something from childhood: a lack of compassion and sympathy for others and animals. That continues into adulthood, and cannot be changed for psychopaths by therapy or medical treatment!

Why is it that the psychopath sees some things so clearly, yet, anything else in life is really not noticed?

They are focused, like a Super Highway: seeing only one thing or direction, and all other side info, actually 99% of life, is ignored or by the brain not noticed: not really even seen!

There are things they just don't see, which is greatly influenced by their brain. Anything off to the side, actually the whole rest of life, is not noticed or seen, in this metaphor, the mountains, nature, ecology, animals, people, small towns that may end up dying off. They see only their chess match or killer video game:

Question: why is the actions and thoughts of the gaslighter so polarized?

Answer: as psychopaths and pathological narcissists progress over their lifetime, their own life becomes very polarized in many ways:
a. interests become polarized
b. beliefs and thoughts become polarized
c. and ultimately, the actual function of the brain becomes polarized: areas dedicated to the "killer video game" or killer chess match (in other articles here, on Harry Potter killer chess match), become more distinct, active, and even viewable on brain scans as more active. More thoughts become dedicated to the gamesmanship of the killer video game. This becomes a part of the brains development over even decades of a persons life: any thought, feeling or experience becomes "highwayed" or super pathwayed to the "killer video game". That means:

the psychopath's thought life is all related to the killer video game
all experiences and current and future actions are related to that
life becomes only the planning and refining of the killer video game

and, there are pretty bad outcomes of this:
a. seeking leadership to accomplish the outcomes of winning the killer video game is sought by most by shy, introverted, and agoraphobic psychopaths: most need a public office of power to accomplish the video game win. It could be a very public office such as President Trump or any political psychopath worldwide, including Bolsnaro called the "president and new Hitler of Brazil", and now actually an active friend of Donald Trump based on his win, and their phone contact and mutual adoration.

Gaslighter Political Psychopaths: What is the Super Brain Highway of their Worldview?

Example 1: There's a hurricane, but then your citizenship fails you with aid: news: Trump fails in visit to Puerto Rico and aid there, and denies deaths from hurricane
vs.
Trump visits white victims of hurricane on US Mainland, aid and recovery was planned days in advance, and the disaster fully mitigated

2. a president is asleep at the wheel, when weekly mass shootings terrify and kill:

Example, yesterday's shooting killing 12 in Thousand Oaks, California:

The President may send out tons of sympathy messages, but those serve only his own image. All is self-serving for the psychopath.

3.  You're aware of something others ignore, but they still ignore it as corroborated news stacks up:



The BBC reports today that the total number of invertebrate animals gone, destroyed, worldwide totals 60% on average per species. This is over 20 years, and not even a report of species now extinct, which is reported at 15 species per week. That means: 60% less Green Hummingbirds, 60% less cow poop flies, and so on. While it may seem insignificant, less quantity of animals, plants, bacteria, and fungus means less livability for humans in the future: apocalypse.


This super charged though and personality: it actually is the World View of the Psychopath and that makes them very dangerous to all others not in subjugation.
a. send sympathy messages that show you as a compassionate person: it really serves "me" to do so
b. get back to the killer video game fast







We've often written in blogs on Psychopaths, Narcissists, and the Environment and the problem is, if you think it could never happen to you....

You're next

Fragmentation of the Soul: Death by a Thousand Cuts

Some thieves are fast. But, some theft takes the Gaslighter who has at hand the task of finding then stealing all the goods. This may take "death by a thousand cuts" on the Gaslight's victim:

• fragment you
• split you apart from your resources, senses
• confuse with a thousand little comments: you're crazy

BREAKING DOWN 'Death By A Thousand Cuts'
This figure of speech refers to the idea that while a single small cut may not be not fatal, the cumulative effect of many of them could cause a person to bleed to death. The term is derived from an ancient form of torture in which the condemned person was subjected to a number of minor wounds until the accumulation of damage became fatal.

Death By A Thousand Cuts
DEFINITION of 'Death By A Thousand Cuts'
Death by a thousand cuts is a figure of speech that refers to a failure that occurs as a result of many small problems. Death by a thousand cuts could refer to the termination of a proposed deal as a result of several small issues rather than one major one. This term could also apply to a product or idea that is destroyed by too many minor changes.

Death By A Thousand Cuts https://www.investopedia.com/terms/d/death-1000-cuts.asp#ixzz5V32eqepc

breach
cleavage
cleft
crack
discontinuity
disjunction
displacement
fissure
fragmentation
gap
mutilation
opening
rent
rift
schism
severance
splinter
split
wound
shave
chip
flake
erode
break
break down
carve
cross
cut
isolate
partition
segregate
split
subdivide
tear
bisect
branch
chop
cleave
demarcate
detach
dichotomize
disengage
disentangle
disjoin
dislocate
dismember
dissect
dissever
dissociate
dissolve
disunite
divorce
halve
intersect
loose
part
quarter
rend
rupture
section
segment
sever
shear
sunder
unbind
undo
abscind
cut up
pull away



Related Stories:

Fragmentation Dictates São Paulo’s 33rd Art Bienal

“Fragmentation is a fact in today’s world and it is represented in this exhibition. This (biennial) is linked to today’s social networks and its collateral effects, which makes people connect only with those who have the same interests as they, which in turn increases discrimination and intolerance,” concluded Perez-Barreiro.

https://riotimesonline.com/brazil-news/rio-travel/fragmentation-dictates-sao-paulos-33rd-art-bienal/

Death by One Thousand Cuts: How the Trump Administration Is Using Rulemaking to Kill the Endangered Species Act

https://medium.com/wild-without-end/death-by-one-thousand-cuts-how-the-trump-administration-is-using-rulemaking-to-kill-the-endangered-a0af8689d9de

Points of Light: Cultures and History

Cultures and history can be forgotten, or they can be part of our mental Points of Light.

Here are two examples:

1.  We bring back our own culture and the cultures of others:

Edward Curtis: Was this the most ambitious photo project ever?
Edward S Curtis spent years living with Native American tribes to chronicle their lives, in what became a definitive work of vast proportions.

After taking more than 40,000 pictures over 30 years, he published the last of 20 volumes in 1930.

https://www.bbc.com/news/video_and_audio/headlines/45843072/edward-curtis-was-this-the-most-ambitious-photo-project-ever

2. African Women: remembering them in history, 10 short BBC video vignettes:

Warrior Queens:

https://www.bbc.com/news/av/world-africa-45877404/nehanda-the-shona-spirit-medium-that-inspired-mugabe

Ambushed then Hijacked: 75 words to expand thinking

G: thanks for your dialogue and links to Mental Hijacking: society, social media, advertising and more.
(https://neurohacker.com/how-social-media-and-ai-hijack-your-brain)

There's lots to this. I also thought of the mythic role of the Mermaids in the Homer stories: mesmerizing and enchanting, as well as those mythic types that directly suck the soul from you as in Harry Potter movies:


Stolen are mind, body, heart, or soul......however you see a human "self".



Sucked out and Stolen Life, Harry Potter

The thing you could say about these Hijackers is that there are many: many types, and many methods. In fact, it's all very prevalent.

Your article mentions:
social media
advertising

How about also the metaphors in movies, like Invasion of the Body Snatchers?

Apart from the great need to know and stop mind snatching, there is the process of regaining our mental self.




Here are 5 Word lists to expand your thinking on the topic of Hijack

Ambushed then Hijacked: 75 words to expand thinking

carjack
commandeer
kidnap
steal
shanghai
skyjack
take hostage
annex
borrow
clap
confiscate
cop
embezzle
filch
get fingers on
get hands on
glom on to
grab
grab hold of
lift
misappropriate
moonlight requisition
pilfer
pocket
secure
swipe
take over
usurp
requisition
sequester
sequestrate



ambush
appropriate
arrest
block
catch
check
curb
cut in
cut off
deflect
head off at pass
hinder
interlope
interpose
make off with
obstruct
prevent
seize
shortstop
stop
take
take away

body snatch
bundle off
capture
carry away
carry off
coax
decoy
entice
grab
lay hands on
lure
make off with
pirate
remove
run away with
seduce
seize
shanghai
skyjack
snatch
spirit away
steal
waylay

abscond
appropriate
bereave
break into
burglarize
burgle
cheat
con
cop
defalcate
defraud
despoil
disinherit
dispossess
divest
do out of
embezzle
filch
heist
hold up
hustle
lift
loot
lose
mug
oust
peculate
pilfer
pillage
pinch
plunder
promote
purloin
raid
ransack
relieve
requisition
rifle
rip off
roll
sack
scrounge
snitch
stick up
strip
strong-arm
swindle
swipe
take
thieve
withhold




ambush
annex
apprehend
appropriate
arrest
arrogate
bag
bust
capture
carry off
catch
claw
clutch
commandeer
confiscate
conquer
exact
force
gain
get
grab
grasp
hijack
hook
impound
incorporate
kidnap
lift
nab
nail
occupy
overcome
overpower
overrun
overwhelm
pick up
pounce
secure
snag
snare
spirit away
subdue
take
take by storm
take captive
take over
take possession of
throttle
trap
usurp
wrench

Points of Light: Preserving Cultures Counts

In some movies from the 30's and 40's a lovely vacation is portrayed. While the scene may be from a former time, movies from this era emulated certain vacation types and spots, just like other things of the wealthy were emulated in movies, albeit a Sherlock Holmes movie, vampire, love, or mystery:
the dinner jacket
the martini
nice leather travel luggage
Harrods
big gems on necklaces and rings
flowing designer dresses for designer parties

This was the era forgetting the glamour of the 1912 cruise ship disaster of the Titanic, devastating World War 1, and growing financial and political tensions.  I think this was also a time when somewhat realistic movies, like Gaslight were brought to us by the British. I think there is a reason for many mysteries and dark dramas being influenced by England: it was the land of Jack the Ripper, Scotland Yard, tales of Sherlock Holmes, and the dark sides of London.

In the movie Gaslight, our heroine has met a man while on her glamour vacation. Was it like so many movies at that time, portraying a long rest at Lake Como, in Italy?

Remember, as the note above, there are two versions of the movie, with different details. But, there is the
vacation
the return home
the gaslighting

Then, this is not fully a happy ending. There is no return to Lake Como. The gaslighter's damage has redirected the story. It doesn't return to a naive Lake story or rest. But, also, it doesn't return to that theme at all.....there is no Prince taking our heroine off to the Lake.

The story has then changed. It's not innocent, and not naive anymore. There is damage. Just like the knights going off naively to find the Holy Grail, they all end up battered, scared, and war torn from the experience. Nothing is the same.

Something is lost then.

These stories serve as warnings and tragedies. There is loss. They tell us

don't go there
don't do that
don't have dinner in the vampires castle

When the thief, the gaslighter, takes one's innocence, it's replaced with a more mature view of the world. Being jaded can show up. But, the risk is to let the pendulum swing so far that one is only jaded. One must find now a balance:

how can you be careful, jaded, and "return to or regain your innocence"?

Lost is the culture of Lake Como and the restive vacation, but also potentially lost for good is the culture of the lake vacation AND a part of our souls, often called our inner innocent child self.

About Lake Como

https://www.mirror.co.uk/travel/europe/5-reasons-italys-lake-como-12436663

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