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Thursday, September 13, 2018

If it feels like Crazytown, it is Crazytown

There is a feeling that can't be greatly described. Sure, there is sadness, joy, despair, and all the other colors and moods of life.

But, crazy, feeling crazy is certainly an anomaly.

Gaslighters like to call others crazy. Why? Because it takes the vulnerable into that strange netherworld notion of AM I CRAZY.  "Am I crazy" heads after a few minutes, times, or days into really feeling Crazy.

Who then are the vulnerable? About 80% of the population have senses of self-checking, consciousness of themselves and surroundings, the feelings of others, and compassion and sympathy for:



  1. their own pain: we know we hurt, have needs, suffer, care for others, desire, and more
  2. others, their pain and plight  (all the way from crying or being suicidal as one person, to the plights of the disenfranchises, traumatized, wounded, and victims of rape / bullying / genocide......etc, etc. )
  3. animals, their pain, plight, vulnerabilities and weaknesses (we have info on the role of "animal husbandry" the care of "domesticated animals we care for and milk, eat eggs, may eat meat, and have as pets, a role we developed in them called animal domestication; this process took 100,000 years)
  4. pets of all types from guppies to pet ponies and donkeys
  5. Mother Nature: as in the movie Avatar, we see, have concern for, and see our role in protecting nature, the oceans, the animals going extinct, and the bacteria and fungus of the Rain Forest, and those 15 world bird species that went extinct listed this last week, and MORE. We see Mother Nature as something all around us, and both near and even something so far or remote we can't see it nor as of yet understand it (like the giant icebergs that split off the Arctic and Antarctica just this last week in a plant fit of global warming anger). 



20% do not have this compassion, empathy, and concern.

It may be hard to accept this, because they say they do.

Let's break this down a bit further, that 20% into two groups of 10% that do not have that function of compassion, empathy, and sympathy for others, but have a narrow focus of self-serving. This, though, is not the Self Compassion of point #1 above. This is self-serving, and ego greed. This is the seeking of goods, wealth, and luxuries at the very risk of other's welfare.  Why is this different in the 80% and the 20%?  Here's why:

Greed and self serving, with it's schemes and plans is that regressed childhood ego effort, that comes from one region of the brain.  It's a function of a section of the brain, and is also part of the personality.

Compassion is in another part of the brain.

In the 20%,

10% and 10% make up the giant worldwide and nextdoor population of Dangerous Narcissists and Next Door Psychopaths. See massive articles and books on this at:

Dangerous Psychopaths and Narcissists

Group A: half of those with no sense of compassion are the "brain wounded" primarily from the trauma of Post Stress Trauma Disorder, and other disorders that shut this section of the brain down and allow the anger portion of the brain to take over.  War veterans, abuse and rape victims, and trauma  victims of all types are in this category. Those suffering from continual poverty, crime, neglect, and even ongoing political corruption as in many countries may fit in here. This disorder of the brain and personality is treatable, though most who have it don't see a need or don't pursue help.

If you have a person who appears to be from this Group A, and they actively seek some help, amelioration, or treatment, of change, possibly they were an extremely mild Group A person, or were really a part of the wounded of the 80% of those with compassion and awareness, but just look worse than they appeared.

Many war veterans who have acted out in gun violence, severe spousal abuse, and manic acts are these PTSD victims, and most have a denial of their problem because they area of the brain that gives you awareness of yourself is broken....or possibly gone for the rest of your life.  Many alcoholic parents, both moms and dads, fit this group and have both the brain damage of loss of compassion and then severely abuse or neglect children. Many abused or neglected or abused as children fit this category, and as adults have a lost "compassion" function.

articles on Sandy Hook and Las Vegas killers

Group B:

These are the 10% of our population in your neighborhood and the world that are dangerous Narcissists and Psychopaths. They are mini Hannibal Lecters, with no compassion,

THOUGH THEY SAY THEY HAVE COMPASSION, CARE, EMPATHY, AND SYMPATHY.

This is the scam, the con, the daily ruse.

These persons are missing the full compassion brain function, and are ruled by the greed and anger parts of the brain and personality.

Daily, they are here to tell you You're Crazy.

And, when they say that, you feel crazy. How does one sort out Crazy? Some days, I've only begun to figure this out, though I am a clinical therapist of 35 years and author of 13 books on Narcissists and Psychopaths

13 resource books you need on the vampires and pirates next door to you. Click this link

It feels crazy. It opens up that anomalous feeling we just can't peg, put our finger on, sort out, make sense of:


Crazy:

insane
kooky
mad
nuts
nutty
silly
wacky
ape
berserk
cuckoo
looney
psycho
screwy
batty
bonkers
cracked
crazed
daft
delirious
demented
deranged
dingy
dippy
erratic
flaky
flipped
flipped out
freaked out
fruity
idiotic
mad as a March hare
maniacal
mental
nutty as fruitcake
of unsound mind
out of one's mind
out of one's tree
out to lunch
round the bend
schizo
screw loose
screwy
touched
unbalanced
unglued
unhinged
unzipped

It is the mental state of "lost in space", "in a nether world", in a "bizarre and confused place".

We feel like the Looney Toons cartoons with crazy ducks running all over, or a Roadrunner running into a cave opening painted on a mountain but getting through that painted opening as if it was real!

Other examples flood from the 20% that tells the 80% that they're crazy.


for fun, follow this link to Thesaurus.com and click on any word above from the crazy list, and expand your thinking on that word with other synonyms for it:

https://www.thesaurus.com/browse/crazy


Can you see this barrage of information from CrazyTown?

What is it in your life?

Here are examples from two CrazyTowns:


The stories are many, but here are just two from today:

1. a new report states that 16,000 Catholic Priests have sexually abused children since World War 11, and reporting has been done only for a few select countries, including North Amercia, Peru, and a few European countries. Reporting has just started in the Philippines where 1,000 priests have been identified as sexual abusers. These abusers each have sexually abuses up to 100 children each.  Will an estimate of all Catholic Priest abuses include over 100,000 priests, and millions of abused children? That is likely.

Most countries do not have the full resources or current motivation due to other national crises to pursue investigations. Some, like Brazil, are caught up with economic and crimes of murder floods:






Catholic Priest pedophiles escape to hiding in Brazil


Catholic Priest pedophiles escape to hiding in Brazil

2. Catholic Priest pedophiles escape to hiding in Brazil

https://www.pri.org/stories/2015-09-17/south-america-has-become-safe-haven-catholic-church-s-alleged-child-molesters



How could this occur? Priest Pedophiles are part of
a. the largest group of 10% uncompassionate and greed self-seeking Psychopaths
b. the Catholic Church created a safe haven for this "world's largest group of psychopaths" by moving to priest celibacy: no marriage and no sex made the "club house". The church has a long history of periods of marriage, celibacy, versus allowing sex and marriage.
c. these are not gays, these are sexual predators of both boys and girls. Pedophilia is a sign of mental Psychopathy: lack of compassion, and greed taking

How can the Catholic Church close this club?
This will not stop the club from "meeting secretly" and continuing:
rules
laws
investigation and punishment (which must be done, but will not stop completely or solve the deepest issue)
congresses and conferences of the Church
declarations, credos
training, interventions
safety of children regulations (though that too must be done)
"repair centers for pedophiles": science has proven there is no repair for these psychopaths in their life: once released they abuse a child within hours. These repair centers become secondary clubhouses.

The solution is:
1. the church must allow priest marriage
2. the church must investigate why Catholics have so much "clandestine sex" of all types, and seek a solution that is more healthy and less "rules and sin oriented".  A new workable health view of sex and sexuality everybody gets permission now to "mess around". But, how can it be that Italians and Brazilian Catholics, two of the most important Catholic Countries, have double standards toward sex:
Priest Pedophiles decry and cast out gays
Men have a double standard of sex: they have one view Sundays during mass, then before Sunday dinner can visit a mistress or prostitute.  (as both a traveler to Catholic countries, and a therapist, I can tell you stories of this that are made only for the most ripe of soap operas or movies).
3. pedophiles are no percentage wise % more greatly gays, but the entire club of all persons must be closed, and that means allowing and recognizing gay marriage.  The whole "club house" of psychopathic pedophiles needs closed.
4. all need made aware of what psychopathy is

If you don't know, find out at:
Political, Religious, and Next Door Pirates and Psychopaths
and, pass that info on via a link or share with your Social Media. Others need to know, too!


3. Catholic Priest pedophiles escape to hiding in Brazil

5.Catholic Priest pedophiles escape to hiding in Brazil

Catholic Priest pedophiles escape to hiding in Brazil map




My opinion: I think the Pope and most Catholic clergy have good intentions and are a part of that 80%. But, they face, if opposing church policies, of being cast out. Still, the Catholic Church has this history of rebels taking a stand against harmful and inhumane church policies, and many of them now are part of the group of 350 or so official Catholic Saints, including St. Francis the original. They felt taking a stand for others was more important than conservative doctrine. 


The second story is the continual barrage from psychopathic politicians, especially the Psychopath Poster Child: Donald Trump:


The second story is the continual barrage from psychopathic politicians, especially the Psychopath Poster Child: Donald Trump:
Trump calls book all lies

The second story is the continual barrage from psychopathic politicians, especially the Psychopath Poster Child: Donald Trump:
today, Trump denies deaths in Puerto Rico



the White House has a new name: Crazy Town
the White House has a new name: Crazy Town




And, as a bonus. How does Trump demonstrate compassion to his wife and son, Baron? In fact, have you seen Baron included in any even or even golf trip by Donald the last few months? What "normal" things that a parent does are missing here with Baron?

And, as a bonus. How does Trump demonstrate compassion to his wife and son, Baron? In fact, have you seen Baron included in any even or even golf trip by Donald the last few months? What "normal" things that a parent does are missing here with Baron?

























Saturday, September 8, 2018

The "LIST OF THE LESSERS" and FEMICIDE

Hey, I'm a part of that group and try to monitor it through my day:

the privilege of White Males

I try to monitor this because it occurs many times a day:
I'll get noticed and get speedier service at the counter at McD's
At the gym, I'll be dealt with more respectfully, where a Hispanic friend is ignored and socially "invisible"
A police officer sees me speeding, but will stop a woman or minority to ticket

This is not good, because if one person is given Privilege, 10 more are:
ignored
not even seen (socially invisible)
given a harder time
not given the help they deserve
may be charged more for items, or not allowed to return an item to Walmart when they had no receipt, but I also returned and item and had no receipt
the Albertsons clerk puts my peaches in a separate bag, but not so for the Hispanic behind me
I am greeted at the Bank, and told to have a nice day by the assistant manager, while women are not


This occurs a lot, though as I age, I am becoming part of that invisible Seniors crowd. Sometimes that amazes me when it happens.

There are lots of forms of Privilege:

  • Western White Male Privilege
  • Wealthy Couples Privilege
  • Beauty Privilege
  • Dominant religion in non-White nations
  • etc.


Privilege is a function of human biases, for which there are endless types, far from you and right next door to you!

For the psychopaths, the list of Lessers is quite defined.


Research shows also:
Tall
Flamboyant arm movements when talking increases privilege

How do you work to be aware of this, counter it, and protect the place of others?

In general, Male Privilege is culturally accepted, in all it's abuses and forms. Here is one video on that Male Sexual Privilege: taking of sex, rape, and femicide of women. We've addressed the culture of rape here and other sites linked on this blog.....it is around all of us daily, not just India where mass rapes occur.


Thursday, September 6, 2018

You're the Lilliputian, Jack Black and Trump are the Gullivers

My dad recently asked me: "Why can such a large percentage of us believe the lies of the politicians, cons, and your local car dealers / sales?"

I have answers for that. Most are on this website and that of Psychological Pirates:


Political Pirates and Psychopaths

But, the answers seem so minuscule in comparison to the Giant. We're like the Lilliputians trying to strap down a Gulliver that landed on our shores. And, those tiny ropes and wooden stakes holding them into the sand are so weak that they are really a fake restraint.

Like Gulliver's travels, then, here are some questions for you to ponder, answer.

Our overall issue is: how can a con develop a monstrous view of themselves, using the power of Mythic Self Development?




The Gaslighter begins with Image 1, and through Mythic Image development moves themselves and how others view them to Image 2, 3, and 4:


Image 1:


donald trump king dictator napolean and gulliver's travels

Through Mythic Image Development moves the public's view of themselves to:
images 2, 3, 4,

2. donald trump king dictator napolean and gulliver's travels

3. donald trump king dictator napolean and gulliver's travels

4. donald trump king dictator napolean and gulliver's travels




Articles on: Developing a mythic image of a nobody, buffoon, or psychopath!


1. Why is Gulliver in remakes a buffoon character to have that gigantic images, as opposed to any other type? Hint: these are not the Gulliver types:

a non-white
a great statesman or world leader
a great world explorer
a historian
a woman

jack black and donald trump king dictator napolean and gulliver's travels

jack black and donald trump king dictator napolean and gulliver's travels

3. jack black and donald trump king dictator napolean and gulliver's travels


4. jack black and donald trump king dictator napolean and gulliver's travels

 You're the Lilliputian, Jack Black and Trump are the Gullivers

5. jack black and donald trump king dictator napolean and gulliver's travels

6. jack black and donald trump king dictator napolean and gulliver's travels




2. How is the real image or character of the person countered by a mythical gigantic powerful image of themselves?

3. How is this promoted by propaganda by the false giant?

4. How are the ropes we plan to use a predestined failure?


guns, fear: jack black and donald trump king dictator napolean and gulliver's travels

arrival: jack black and donald trump king dictator napolean and gulliver's travels

con: jack black and donald trump king dictator napolean and gulliver's travels

babies and children illegals: jack black and donald trump king dictator napolean and gulliver's travels

propaganda, counter information, con: jack black and donald trump king dictator napolean and gulliver's travels


4. How does the political psychopath or your next door gaslighter use counter-propaganda and disinformation to stop a real view of their character, goals, and intent of theft / greed?


greed: jack black and donald trump king dictator napolean and gulliver's travels


throwing sessions under the bus: fear, intimidation: jack black and donald trump king dictator napolean and gulliver's travels

psychopath: jack black and donald trump king dictator napolean and gulliver's travels


king donald: jack black and donald trump king dictator napolean and gulliver's travels

drag queen donald trump

king donald trump




5. Despite public view or demand, how does the Psychopath or Gaslighter pursue his own self-serving agenda?
time magazine cover: trump putin






6. Gaslighters are always in the process of using "meat" or "discardable materials", which is you or other humans. They don't have a brain and personality function of compassion that others are humans. Of the psychopaths that you know:

Who are they throwing "under the bus" now, or using in a chess game of their life?

tip: this is always being played on many fronts at the same time by the Pirate

books on this process:

13 Books, booklets, and Kindle: methods of American Pirates you know today!

trump throws sessions under the bus

trump time cover, monster

time cover: trump clown in chief


donald trump: traitor in the white house, conspiracy,


7. Despite the "fake press" on the Gaslighter, how do they sell themselves as victors "the kind that has never been seen before", saviors, rescuers, super leaders?



8. What other world leaders are Gaslighters in their own right?

hint: a tiger never changes its stripes





FYI: the US on today charges the North Korean in charge of releasing the most damaging computer virus into the US and hacking US  banks, hospitals, and sought to drain Sony Pictures. This is the chief of Korean intelligence.

FYI: Photo images today show North Korean nuclear sites and weapons being build TODAY.


kim jong un north korea, lies on nukes, computer virus





Bonus:

As a part of "mythic image building", how does the gaslighter fill his world with cons about his super human Mythic Image?

Hint: here is one, where the name of a son is correlated with a book.

This image development is part of the Mythic Image, and can include any perception of wives, intelligence, connection, power, ownership, wealth, virility (including penis size), appearing religious / a nice common person, and much more.


ingersoll lockwood adventures of baron trump and donald trump

ingersoll lockwood adventures of baron trump and donald trump





Sunday, August 19, 2018

Breaking the Trance of Humiliation Bullies

Please begin here with Part 1 of this article:

https://gaslightattack.blogspot.com/2018/08/using-humiliation-dehumanizing-you.html


The prior article mentioned aspects of humiliation, and that you're less then the cattle: dehumanized.



deterioration of your value, worth, dignity, humanity
demotions
derogations
discrediting all about you
disgrace in person or in public
dishonor
making you feel mortification
reducing your value, accomplishments
downgrading
contempt for you as a person or equal
degradation
disrespect
reproach for no reason but that you're viewed as lesser
scorn and dirty looks
making you a stigma
defamation and slandering you: smear campaigns
derision
disesteem
disfavor
disrepute
put-down
making you a scandal
slander
slight
tarnish you
black eye
selling you as ill-repute




degradation
dishonor
downgrade
humiliation
shame
provocation
slight
abuse
brickbat
injury mentally: traumatized
slap
slur
vexation
wrong
backhanded compliment
left-handed compliment
slap in the face
airs
haughtiness
loftiness
lordliness
fake patronage
no toleration
patronizing attitude

The enchantment of siren bullies
The enchantment of siren bullies


How do you break the trance caused by all of this? A trance is in other words enchantment, or a change of consciousness. We're no longer in our conscious or thinking self, we're overtaken, not by choice and stuck in our Trauma Self.

See the link to your left: short videos on group bias, because there are several books on bullies and psychopaths, and resources on how to break the trances caused by them. Get unstuck, or for PTSD persons, get unstuck quicker....






Using Humiliation: Dehumanizing You

Humiliation is how the bully increases the image of their own value (grandiose self worth), and decreases the image of your worth. You are dehumanized. They feel you're less than cattle, they send this message to you, and you sense this. You may recognize this, OR you may, because you've been bullied before feel this or experience this as a less-than-conscious level: we feel something dull in our stomach, bend our back over, and look down......it's that old bullied feeling. Somewhere in our mind AND brain, we experience something that is more feeling oriented though profound. We may not be able to put our finger on just what it is, but it envelops us in that old dark cloud we've felt before.

From Thesuarus.com

Humiliation


Here is part 2 of this article: Breaking the Humiliation Trance


Please be sure to click on the left for the 5 short videos from PBS on the process of dehumanization by people and groups: how good people can become bullies....and even justify humiliating or killing others. 


Using Humiliation: Dehumanizing You



confusion
degradation
disgrace
ignominy
indignity
shame
abasement
affront
chagrin
comedown
condescension
discomfiture
dishonor
mortification
put-down
resignation
self-abasement
submission
submissiveness
humbling
loss of face
mental pain
touché

If any of these words strike a cord with you, go to this link and click on that word for more similar synonyms.
https://www.thesaurus.com/browse/humiliation


Here is a short video on the Dehumanizing act of the bully that is HUMILIATION

Click here:

https://www.bbc.com/ideas/videos/whats-the-point-of-humiliation/p06c6xxb?playlist=get-a-taste-of-bbc-ideas-short-films-for-curious-m



humiliation definition wikipedia: debasing dehumanizing

bbc: ideas beta videos: what is the point of humiliation

bbc: ideas beta videos: what is the point of humiliation

3 bbc: ideas beta videos: what is the point of humiliation





You are less than "a cattle", these disturbing images are used about cattle, because the humiliation of your soul, worth, and humanity IS disturbing: it is violent, debasing, and death is intended by the bully (emotional, psychological, and psychic death pleases them...)





debasement and dehumanizing of people  by bullies: you are less than cattle feedlot slaughter
    debasement and dehumanizing of people  by bullies: you are less than cattle in a feedlot to slaughter

 2   debasement and dehumanizing of people  by bullies: you are less than cattle in a feedlot to slaughter
Hmm, it looks like only burger and dollars to me. Grandiose bullies

3  2   debasement and dehumanizing of people  by bullies: you are less than cattle in a feedlot to slaughter
Who cares? I don't. Bullies

4  2   debasement and dehumanizing of people  by bullies: you are less than cattle in a feedlot to slaughter
you are just a number, one of the mass of lessers

and I am: King, Better, Superior,

"I am the least racist person you'll ever know", Trump.

This is symbolic of megalomaniacs from any time and any culture, including conquerors of all indigenous and developed civilizations of the Americas (South, Central, and North), and any current megalomaniac. Today, there are many worldwide. But, bullies exist in all small subgroups: they reside at our schools, neighborhoods, churches, and work!

african king carried by slaves
If there are lessers, then slavery and bias are justifiable, as well as genocide. Gaslighters, bullies, and psychopaths




A personal story: my brother called me a pansy and many other words as child. He'd pick words that had some negative meaning to me.....they had to work. They did.


Another personal story: I am selling some art work on Ebay. I've expected the normal problems selling things to others. What I didn't expect though was to come across a skilled Humiliator. This person got the merchandise and rather than describing the problems with the piece or recommending solutions, humiliated me personally. "Why would you, who are you......and so on.

Ultimately, this person is skilled at this, as it was done in just 4 sentences. The item was sold to the person for $1000 less than the asking price of $3600, and I paid out $600 in fees to ebay and Fedex. But, this person, I would guess is likely a frequent bully to the Ebay scene: he got a grand discount, a good buy, and not wants to bully some more to get $100 back, $200 back, or even up to $400 (it's likely he wants to post-sale intimidate me down to his first asking price, $1600.

This is a skilled person. I would imagine that this individual is not buying this for himself, but has a knowledge of the Copper Statue market, and plans to resell for many thousands more. But, the method used it intimidation by personalizing me: the story is about my character and not the art object.

This is a good reminder for me: as I travel overseas where bartering is common, I want to avoid the methods employed by Americans: not being skilled in barter, most might head toward personal humiliation: why would YOU charge this much, who do you think you are, and so on. And, Americans walk away as others might, but I know there is an evil eye we give the vendor of that "who do you think you are, I'll find a better, nicer, more moral vendor than you. It's personal.

Instead, I intend to write myself a note and laminate it for travel:
keep bartering object oriented, and be a moral person: affirm the person, attack only the price!

I think I have fallen into this these days, where I would not have before: you're dealing the sales person at Amazon.com and they're immovable on an item that they sold but came from a private vendor and won't help (for instance, it came with no instructions to build, as a recent purchase of mine of a bench drill press).  It took several hours to construct, and at that time, Amazon did not take shipping free returns from their private vendors (I think they do now). So, I have been left with only humiliation with an employee: who do you think you are, why would Amazon.com do this??

I've been left with dead end matters with that company, Cable One Internet, Sprint, and others, and then have, I admit, become the bully of this article: a bully of dehumanizing in an attempt to get help.

Of course, I know rationally that it will take Amazon hundreds of thousands of complaints to change some policy, which doesn't help me now. And, that person on the end of the line is some poor employee: it could be me in that position getting crapped on.

The problem is this, and it's a biggy: we become the bully we hate. We use their method of personal humiliation and attack because it was modelled and done to us.....We become the monster we hate.

an old cartoon, Pogo, said; "We have met the enemy, and he is us."

So, as a personal reminder, I'm also going to put up a laminated card in the kitchen as a reminder: attack the price, the problem, or process, then drop it mentally and on the phone....leave it...... Or else we become what was done to us: we "act out" in ways modeled and done to us by the bully.


My two cards:

in the suitcase:

Barter on price, the item, and don't humiliate in person or in walking away. Be that moral person you think you are. Don't be the ugly American bully.

in the kitchen:

Deal with the price, item, process. If you don't make headway with the supervisor, drop it walk away mentally. It all comes out in the wash. Don't be that ugly American Bully. Rumi the poet says: what you lose will come back around in another way, though it may take time and come our of left field.

(that last comment means, life is balanced, and Karmic with bullies around: you may not get help from Amazon.com but it will surprise you when at Walmart the manager deals better with you on a broken item, and you got back the $20 lost to Amazon.com. It could take a few months, or with devastation done by bullies, it could take a few years. Rumi also says that eventually that megalomaniac King or bully company will one day become "as a slave". That's Karma.)


see part 2 of this article, Humor, and breaking the trance.


https://gaslightattack.blogspot.com/2018/08/breaking-trance-of-humiliation-bullies.html










Monday, August 6, 2018

Only the Divine Feminine can Win over the Gasligther

There are ways to flee the gaslighter, to counter the gaslighter with equal force (fight fire with fire). But, there is only one real solution to the problem.


Gaslighters are true to their nature:
they take, though plans are often secretive
they blow up: anger and rage attacks abound
and they are driven by "rampant male force".

This male force is described by Carl Jung, famous psychiatrist, and Joseph Campbell, the noted mythologist, both of the last century, as the period where Male Thought and Control of others and society are dominant, and dominate over the Feminine.

This Male force has been in control since about the 3rd century BC, and before that, the Female force was in control of society.  It's sort of like looking at the differences of the energy of President Merkel of Germany versus say Donald Trump, leaders in Iran, or the President of China, Xi Jinping.

The are opposite forces:

  • on the Feminine side is:
  • care for mother nature, animals, the planet
  • connection with and tolerance of more peoples, different religions
  • compassion for the humanity of others
  • seeking deeper solutions to problems rather than creating more laws (today it was reported that 50 people were shot and killed in two weekend days in Chicago, and where is the President? Where is a solution to real problems: disenfranchisement. 
  • less killing machines: seeking peace, collaboration
  • competition and one upping: less politicians and drug gangs killing each other




Having things and desire are not the problem with the Male Force: the problem is that the Male force on it's own TAKES FROM OTHERS AND FEELS ENTITLED TO DO SO





What is the final result of male force with only greed and entitlement?
What is the final result of male force with only greed and entitlement?






The male force is a culture of selfish competition that leads to disenfranchisement of others. This disenfranchisement leads to a culture of selfish competition.....it grows. Sometimes the gaslighter will be himself killed by those disenfranchised, but nevertheless, it grows:

  • the culture of violence increases
  • the culture of taking, greed, and riots and breaking into stores increases and is expected
  • the culture of rape increases
  • the culture of violence against the disenfranchised is tolerated and expected: kill women, gays, Muslims, in the US, is then different in other countries: in Pakistan kill Hindus, Gays, Turks, etc. The name or group of the lesser vilified and scapegoated simple adapts to a local culture, but it grows.


Jung and Campbell said that ONLY THE DIVINE FEMININE WITHIN ALL OF US CAN SAVE US. The stated that the singular male dominant time has run it's course, and now, there must be the symbolic wedding of the masculine and feminine in order to save us. Otherwise, global warming, crime, drug violence, will kill us: we'll live out the stories found in so many apocalyptic and post-apocalyptic movies. Word War Z.
Melania shows up gradually: there is the Divine Feminine in all of us
Melania shows up gradually: there is the Divine Feminine in all of us


This wedding, a metaphor of the two parts, a more sane society would exist:
building cars would be combined with renewable resources
restrictive eco-tourism would save the last of our tropical rain forests
and so on.

This symbolic wedding, or the reappearance in society of Feminine forces, is peaking out slowly in the new millennium, but could soon gain a public viewing. Here are some very subtle examples of the Divine Feminine showing up, countering:
the lack of social values for others and the planet
countering the greed, lies, and attacks of the Gaslighter:


2. What is the final result of male force with only greed and entitlement?
Melania shows up gradually: there is the Divine Feminine in all of us




How LeBron James and Melania Trump laid bare the contradictions in the Trump White House


conway: Melania shows up gradually: there is the Divine Feminine in all of us
Even Conway: Melania shows up gradually: there is the Divine Feminine in all of us





Only the Divine Feminine can Win over the Gasligher



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(CNN)Melania Trump's split with her husband over NBA superstar LeBron James is the most glaring example of a growing trend: The President's family and some top officials are adopting positions at odds with his most divisive statements.

The public feud between King James and the imperious President is on one level a personal and even ideological clash between two of the richest, most famous entertainers in American life whose outsize images outshine the confines of the roles they currently play.

But it is also offering new insight into the President's unashamed willingness to launch attacks that touch on the most sensitive fault lines of American life, like race and freedom of expression, that even some of those closest to him find difficult to publicly defend.

In recent days, Trump's daughter Ivanka has said she does not share her father's view that the press is the enemy of the people, only for the President to reinterpret her remarks for his 53 million Twitter followers. Trump's counselor Kellyanne Conway echoed the comments of the President's daughter Sunday. But only after Trump reinforced his attack in a way that made his daughter's personal damage control effort last week look tame by comparison.

"The Fake News hates me saying that they are the Enemy of the People only because they know it's TRUE. I am providing a great service by explaining this to the American People. They purposely cause great division & distrust. They can also cause War! They are very dangerous & sick!" Trump tweeted from his vacation at his golf resort in New Jersey.

Signs of a pattern

In another big disconnect last week, the top intelligence and foreign policy officials delivered a stark warning about Russian election interference, only for Trump to undermine it hours later by railing against the Russia "hoax."


Trump and his administration clash over Russia

The internal dynamics of the Trump family are notoriously tough to understand, and involve a complex mix of characters locked into the trust and loyalty dynamics of the most self-sufficient clans in American politics and business.

It could be that Trump's wife and daughter and some top aides are fighting a battle to safeguard their own principles and beliefs within the eye of the Trump storm and carefully chose areas where they can distance themselves from the President to protect their own identities.

A number of Trump's allies may also be taking steps to preserve their own reputations if they want to remain in the public eye -- both in business and in politics -- after the Trump presidency is over.
A more cynical interpretation of the events of recent days might be that Trump's relatives and officials, by adopting more mainstream positions on certain issues, are carrying out a political strategy that can complement the President's often wild interventions to please his base.

For instance, the more moderate stances of Melania and Ivanka Trump and their independent profiles could be seen as an effort to take the edge of the President's base-pleasing plays among suburban women voters, who will be crucial in the elections of 2018 and 2020.

Kellyanne Conway: 'I don't believe journalists are the enemy of the people'

The show of force of top national security officials at the White House last week makes it possible for the White House to argue that it does take election meddling seriously, even though it has no control over Trump's riffs on how it is all a Democratic "hoax."

Similarly, by adopting sanctions on Russia passed by Congress and allowing the sale of arms to Ukraine, the administration can argue that no White House has been tougher on Russia, despite Trump's constant and puzzling cozying up to President Vladimir Putin in public.

Still, such is the belligerent dominance of Trump's personality, it's quite possible that he will simply drown out any political positioning of those around him. There is often little momentum for action in Washington if a President is not on board -- one reason why many people doubt the impact of countermeasures against Russia's efforts to taint US democracy.

And Trump's enemies will argue that Ivanka Trump, Melania Trump and Conway are complicit by definition in the President's rhetoric and have shown little capacity to moderate his views.
The President's daughter, for instance, was at his side as he traveled to Tampa, Florida, for a Tuesday night rally in which he torched the media and his supporters jeered journalists.
At the very least, their differing positions reflect the reality that the President, as the fulcrum of the administration, is now sufficiently confident in his job that he is beyond influence from those around him even if they disagree with aspects of his rhetoric.

King Donald versus King James

The most jarring gap between Trump and those around him emerged this weekend, after the President's attack on the newest, most famous member of the Los Angeles Lakers, who has just opened a school in Akron, Ohio, and has in the past been critical of the President's views on race.
The President fired off a tweet at 10.37 p.m. ET on Friday night after CNN re-aired an interview with James.

"Lebron James was just interviewed by the dumbest man on television, Don Lemon. He made Lebron look smart, which isn't easy to do. I like Mike!" Trump tweeted.

Michael Jordan pushes back after Trump attacks LeBron James, Don Lemon

Trump's tweet will no doubt be justified by his supporters as fair game, since James has never shied from criticizing the President.

Last September for instance, James called the President a "bum" and said that it was a great honor for championship winning teams to go to the White House until he showed up.

But the tone of Trump's tweet appeared to have troubling racial undertones. It was the latest occasion in which the President has appeared to cast doubt on the intelligence of African-American public figures.

And by saying he preferred Michael Jordan to James, he was endorsing another star NBA athlete who has sometimes been criticized for not doing more in his career to highlight political, racial and social issues important to the black community. (Jordan later said through a spokeswoman that he supported James and that he's "doing an amazing job for his community," without directly addressing Trump's comment.)

Criticizing James after he had been publicizing his own public service also cast Trump in a poor light. And it may have forced the first lady's hand, given that community service is at the center of her "Be Best" campaign.

On Saturday, in the latest show of independence from the East Wing, her spokeswoman issued a statement that effectively distanced herself from her husband's remarks, even saying she would be open to visiting the school James opened.

"It looks like LeBron James is working to do good things on behalf of our next generation and just as she always has, the First Lady encourages everyone to have an open dialogue about issues facing children today," said the statement issued to CNN.

Trump targets the press

Trump's attacks on the media come as no surprise, and many Presidents have grumbled at their news coverage. But it's still shocking to see a President of the United States making such an unapologetic assault on the Fourth Estate as part of an apparent strategy of discrediting sources of power that contradict his own preferred versions of reality.

The President fired off new shots at the media at a rally in Ohio on Saturday night in a reminder that the full-fledged assault on the press will be a centerpiece of his midterm election campaign.
Last week, in an exchange with CNN's Jim Acosta, White House press secretary Sarah Sanders refused to decry Trump's mantra that the press is the enemy of the people, a statement that for many observers on both sides of the political spectrum has authoritarian overtones.

But Conway, who had a strong media profile before joining Trump's campaign in 2016 and joining him in the White House, took the opportunity to put her views on the record Sunday, while being careful not to openly criticize the President.

She said she thought the President was referring to "some reporters" who she said "aren't always telling the truth." But she later added as she walked a rhetorical tightrope, "I don't believe journalists are the enemy of the people."

CNN's Kate Bennett contributed to this report.

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